Non- molestation & police

[Dad0070]

if my ex partner have non molestation order on her self (but i was found not guilty, just agreed with that order to avoid more court fees), and now she star use that not gave me my child for a weekends. so today its my weekend with child (we dont have agreement ,but have message where we agreed the chils visitation and everyt second weekend i took my child in my house,but now she start some argument and not giving me the child. she knows this is painful for me,i dont see my child two weeks already we have strong relationship with baby girl she is 3yrs old. so mu question can i go in meeting point where ex sister can bring me my daughter (but she reject) and call the police for assistant to knock on the door to see if my daughter is fine and safe? and maybe take her for my weekend?
All this traumatize my baby girl,and the mother dont care she just thinking about her self and she just jealous niw because im happy with new family and engaged.

[Suzie, FRG Adviser]

Dear Dad0070

Welcome to the parents’ forum and thank you for your post.

My name is Suzie, online adviser at Family Rights Group and I will respond to your post today. I am sorry that you are experiencing difficulties having contact with your 3-year-old daughter. Our service offers advice when there is direct social work involvement with a family. I will, however, offer suggestions on the points raised in your post.

If there is a non-molestation order against your partner, it depends on what the terms of that order prevents her from doing whether she can meet with you. It is surprising that the court would not have given any indication of how contact could be arranged going forward. You it seems you gave an undertaking to the court not to do certain things, and this is as binding on you. There are consequences for each of you if mother breaks the non-molestation order or you the undertaking.

If mother is unwilling to continue with the agreed contact arrangements using a third party to collect your daughter and drop her off, you need to consider seeking an order from the court for contact. You can get advice from Child Law Advice on 0300 330 5480 as they advise on private family matters such as contact. They offer advice to persons who do not have a solicitor.

You can represent yourself at court and get help from Support through Court on 0300 081 0006. There is helpful information for persons representing themselves (litigants in person) on this website Advice Now

It is also possible for you to ask the local children’s services department where your daughter lives for help if you believe your daughter is adversely affected. Your daughter’s mother may not want children’s services involved and it could possibly escalate the difficulties in your relationship with her. I suggest you consider seeking legal advice about going down this route.

You may wish to look at information on our websiteabout children’s services to give you an idea of their role. They cannot force the mother to agree contact only the court can make an order.

I hope you find this helpful.

Best wishes

Suzie