Please Tell Me Your Stories

[ihatesocialservices]

Dear All,
Following more than a year of hell culminating in the loss of my beautiful youngest child,
I am now planning on writing a book that documents the repeated abuses of families and children and failure by social services to do anything in any way positive or helpful or proactive.
i want to include as many real-life stories as possible, told to me by the families directly involved, not pull stories from the internet and ot making it up as I go along. I can and will keep any details anonymous or changed to protect identities if so desired; but will also use real names where parents haven't been gagged if they want this to be done.
Please can you send me a PM through this site if you think you would be interested in having your story included in this book. It's very early stages and I want to make sure I do my research as thoroughly as possible.
Many thanks to anyone willing to participate.

[warthhog123]

I am sorry you lost your daughter, i think in 8 weeks time i will be in your shoes as its a done deal that everyone works for social services and no matter what you do or change they make their mind up from day 1!!!!!!
I am appearing to just be going through the torture of seeing my child through contact only for them to snatch him away on very distorted assumptions and past!!!!!!!!!
I absolutely despair I cant imagine been where you are right now as i dnt honestly think i can cope with losing him, my only desire to live now is the tiny glimmer of him been returned, nothing more nothing less. social services and physiological assessment have ground me down to nothing, barely able to function beyond contact times.

[Basil]

I will second what has just been said, so wrong.

[ihatesocialservices]

I will second what has just been said, so wrong.

Thank you for your support. But I need people willing to to share their own stories of hell, if this is ever going to get somek ind of exposure.
Is anyone willing to talk to me?

[braveheart]

Hi there I am more than willing to share my story with you I will inbox you.

[Frazor]

Hello so it's now been 9 years of my 2 children both on care orders with my children living at home with me there mum. My son is now 16 my daughter is 9 . The LA share parental responsibility with me . There is now a new sw she is about the 30th one. I've asked them when they will discharge the care order at the meeting just before Christmas they said due to my eldest son having an infected toe from an ingrown toe nail that they believe due him being put on antibiotics for the infection they believe im neglecting my children's health needs . They have now asked me to meet with them this week . I get so upset because all they have ever done is put me down i took my to the doctors the sw said it could have turned to blood poisoning . I'm a single parent on my own. I've said none of them no us as a family ive faught hard my the love for my children none of these people are around long enough to know anything . Strangers have come in and out of our home it's not fair . My eldest son is 30 he said mum the only trauma in our lives is what social services have done . My health since there involvement as deteriorated it should not be this way. I have been diagnosed with me/cfs from the trauma. I have given them letters with the diagnosis from a long covid clinic and 3 different sw have said what's that I've never heard of it. A care order in my eyes should mean the child is not being cared for by there family then remove the child i have seen where that has happened for the right reasons and totally agree. My children are classed as LAC . I feel this was an experiment gone wrong and me and my lovely poor innocent children are swept in the middle of something that without the correct care team who will be consistent until the end and discharge such an order then they are corrupt they don't care about my children they only care about there only family and making a profit . By all means i only care for my children they are mine we have a bond and love for one another . And yes i know im a good mum but these people don't try to build us up they knock us down. Try to put yourself in a mother's shoes i love and care for my children with all my heart . There is no book on being the best parent you can be. I try my best if i know that someone is sincerely trying to help us grow in a good way i am more than happy to get along with that . But they try to build a care plan on nothing no reports no nothing . I'm not a sw im not a solicitor im far from clever but im a mum. And yes okay im scared , im also scared to admit I'm scared ...

[Frazor]

I feel your pain ,and i would like to say you are a very brave , i would certainly share my story with you..

[Frazor]

Can you tell my how i go about pm ING you i have tried but have not done this on this site before so i am unsure . That is if that is okay with you .

[bayescr]

All these so-called professionals are idiots from another planet, who try to lecture and control other people lives, but cannot manage their own schedules.