I'm having a baby with a sex offender

User avatar
Suzie, FRG Adviser
Posts: 4234
Joined: Mon Jul 04, 2011 2:57 pm

Re: I'm having a baby with a sex offender

Post by Suzie, FRG Adviser » Fri Jul 15, 2022 12:12 pm

Jellybean123 wrote: Fri Jul 08, 2022 9:53 am He lives with me at the moment and there is a 12 year old in the house he’s just not aloud to be left alone with anyone under 16, he’s on the sex offenders for 10 years.
Social services are already involved just wanted to know what other people went through
Dear Jellybean123

Please see my reply to your earlier post.

Best wishes

Suzie

User avatar
Suzie, FRG Adviser
Posts: 4234
Joined: Mon Jul 04, 2011 2:57 pm

Re: I'm having a baby with a sex offender

Post by Suzie, FRG Adviser » Fri Jul 15, 2022 12:13 pm

Jellybean123 wrote: Fri Jul 08, 2022 9:53 am He lives with me at the moment and there is a 12 year old in the house he’s just not aloud to be left alone with anyone under 16, he’s on the sex offenders for 10 years.
Social services are already involved just wanted to know what other people went through
Dear Jellybean123

Please see my response to your earlier pos.

Best wishes

Suzie

User avatar
Suzie, FRG Adviser
Posts: 4234
Joined: Mon Jul 04, 2011 2:57 pm

Re: I'm having a baby with a sex offender

Post by Suzie, FRG Adviser » Fri Jul 15, 2022 12:16 pm

Jellybean123 wrote: Thu Jul 07, 2022 9:51 pm He was put on it as he was talking to a 12 and 13 year old. Beofre me and him got together, he regrets all his past and knows what he did was wrong but I love him to much to lose him and I’m scared that that is going to be the case and I don’t want to split up with him
Dear Jellybean123

Please see my response to your earlier post.

Best wishes

Suzie

Starling
Posts: 4
Joined: Sat Jul 23, 2022 8:34 am

Re: I'm having a baby with a sex offender

Post by Starling » Thu Jul 28, 2022 4:32 pm

Hi I am not sure where to post it who can give me the correct advice. My partner of a year committed a sexual offence with a 16 years 2 years prior to us meeting. He was a secondary school teacher. Therefore, was given a 14 month prison sentence. We have been together for a year and he told me the situation at the beginning but it was called nothing more than an affair, but he was 33 at the time. I don’t know what to do with my future as I am 35 and wish to have a family of my own and as much as I love him I do worry that it is going to affect my future, being that it’s already turnt my life upside down. Regarding my work and my relationship with my family which I feel awful about. I would greatly appreciate any advise that anyone can give me as to weither having children with this man is going to cause more problems ect, shall I just walk away! So so confused.
Thank you for reading

Need help 2021
Posts: 161
Joined: Fri Oct 15, 2021 9:23 pm

Re: I'm having a baby with a sex offender

Post by Need help 2021 » Thu Jul 28, 2022 4:37 pm

Hi I just saw you post the sad thing is the kin you get pregnant socail will be involved and they are nightmares to be honest and when you do have the baby you will not be able to stay together

Starling
Posts: 4
Joined: Sat Jul 23, 2022 8:34 am

Re: I'm having a baby with a sex offender

Post by Starling » Thu Jul 28, 2022 4:42 pm

Hi thank you for responding. So basically when he is released next year, I won’t be able to have a future with him with children? I thought perhaps the social services would do an initial check and then see that he has two younger children himself and be ok. I know it sounds daft but If I can’t have a child with this man and live together then I can by see any other option! He’s on the register for 10 years too so what choice do I have? He keeps saying that it will be ok and we can have a family and live happily ect. Am I just totally poking myself here? X

Starling
Posts: 4
Joined: Sat Jul 23, 2022 8:34 am

Re: I'm having a baby with a sex offender

Post by Starling » Thu Jul 28, 2022 4:43 pm

*fooling

Need help 2021
Posts: 161
Joined: Fri Oct 15, 2021 9:23 pm

Re: I'm having a baby with a sex offender

Post by Need help 2021 » Thu Jul 28, 2022 4:46 pm

Hun did you get my inbox message

Need help 2021
Posts: 161
Joined: Fri Oct 15, 2021 9:23 pm

Re: I'm having a baby with a sex offender

Post by Need help 2021 » Thu Jul 28, 2022 4:56 pm

It’s ok for him to say it will be ok it will not be ok at all the first thing socail will say to you you know about his offence and you chose to me with him hun did you get my inbox message at all

Starling
Posts: 4
Joined: Sat Jul 23, 2022 8:34 am

Re: I'm having a baby with a sex offender

Post by Starling » Thu Jul 28, 2022 5:00 pm

I have just replied, thank you x

Post Reply

Who is online

In total there are 0 users online :: 0 registered, 0 hidden and 0 guests (based on users active over the past 5 minutes)
Most users ever online was 318 on Fri May 28, 2021 9:04 pm