Trigger warning, please be aware I am adopter so don’t want to upset anyone

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owlie12345
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Trigger warning, please be aware I am adopter so don’t want to upset anyone

Post by owlie12345 » Thu Jul 28, 2022 4:10 pm

So last week the child’s social worker said I should expect a letter about care planning soon. She didn’t know for sure what it would say yet as decisions hadn’t been made then made mentions of potential court. Now she’s emailed and said she’s coming out for a meeting on Monday ideally without little one being here.
We aren’t under any plans at the moment but they’ve accused me of emotional harm due to fabricated illness but only by chances of probability they can’t actually prove it and there’s quite a bit of evidence that I’ve provided that goes against theirs but of course they don’t care about that. She has a social worker because she’s a looked after child, I was her foster carer but she has been here as an adoption placement for three years now, so total of four years. We’ve been waiting for the court order to go through but I’m now worried not only are they going to try and block that but they’re going to try and remove her even though they’ve done nothing to help with her needs and in fact made things worse.
I’m petrified for her more than me even.

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Suzie, FRG Adviser
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Re: Trigger warning, please be aware I am adopter so don’t want to upset anyone

Post by Suzie, FRG Adviser » Mon Aug 01, 2022 2:05 pm

Dear Owlie12345

Thank you for your post, my name is Suzie and I am an online advisor. Before I respond fully to your post can you please clarify whether the application made is for a placement order or an adoption order as this will affect what advice we provide to you.

Many thanks, Suzie.

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