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Re: Partner arrested for iioc

Posted: Fri May 13, 2022 7:24 pm
by Terrifiedparent
Quick update: no phone call from social worker at all, have phoned and left message but no reply.
Now finished 2nd week since the knock and nothing has progressed, solicitor saying pc has been checked and no further images found, just waiting for them to check the phone which is what the hold up is, she seems to think bail will be extended another month

Re: Partner arrested for iioc

Posted: Fri May 13, 2022 9:30 pm
by Need help 2021
Hi until the socail service does coke and see you and your kid he can’t come home until then because of the risk .

Re: Partner arrested for iioc

Posted: Fri May 13, 2022 10:39 pm
by Terrifiedparent
They came Monday for a visit but I've not had any contact since then to suggest anything. I was told they'd call me Tuesday and I havent even had a call.
The assessment on myself and daughter has been done already

Re: Partner arrested for iioc

Posted: Fri May 13, 2022 10:42 pm
by Need help 2021
I have they asked you about you getting back with him and you both specking together

Re: Partner arrested for iioc

Posted: Fri May 13, 2022 11:15 pm
by Terrifiedparent
Yep, she asked if I wanted a relationship and I said yes. She's aware we speak on the phone when the little one isn't around and if he needs anything from the house she knows he comes to pick things up but only when the little one is at school or if I have taken her out somewhere.
Shes spoken to my daughter too and asked if she's seen daddy and she said no he's at nanny's house helping her.

Re: Partner arrested for iioc

Posted: Fri May 13, 2022 11:43 pm
by Need help 2021
It’s just not easy at all I can understand I have hearing for theee days after next week it’s a bloody night mare I have been staying away at my parents house been a year it’s bloody crazy honestly

Re: Partner arrested for iioc

Posted: Mon May 16, 2022 10:51 pm
by Need help 2021
Hi have you had any updates at all with your case ?

Re: Partner arrested for iioc

Posted: Mon May 16, 2022 10:54 pm
by Terrifiedparent
No nothing at all, haven't had any reply or calls from social services.

Re: Partner arrested for iioc

Posted: Wed May 18, 2022 12:52 pm
by Terrifiedparent
Partner had a call from CS today, I'm not cleared to supervise visitation because we still want a relationship. Any visits have to be through a contact centre and this won't be sorted until the police have done everything.
I'm not sure how I feel about it all, I'm angry, upset, scared. I cannot cope with this anymore.

Re: Partner arrested for iioc

Posted: Wed May 18, 2022 8:05 pm
by Need help 2021
Hey hun if you don’t mind inbox me