PLO meeting out of the blue! please help!

[lb93]

aw bless you i can’t imagine how tough that is for you, and he was put on high risk level from judge, he’s got his first review tomorrow i don’t know how long it takes for risk levels to be put down but he’s doing his best to prove he’s not going to re offend or anything

[Need help 2021]

Is he the father to your child .

[lb93]

no he’s not the biological father

[Need help 2021]

If I was in your place I would contact Lucy faithfull and see if they are willing to do his assessment and see the risk what I don’t understand he was inside because he is a high risk it should have at least gone down to medium.

[lb93]

we have been trying to get a risk assessment off them for him, because they made me do one, i passed, they said he seems medium/low risk and social said they will try get the funding for it but now all of a sudden acting really weird and serious and it’s so unfair he’s going to speak to his probation officer tomorrow to get assessments and whatever courses they can offer him because even his probation officer and his other officer that visits him every 3 months for unannounced visits have said they don’t stay in contact with him much because they aren’t concerned about him re offending or anything so like this is what’s p*** me off with it all

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[Need help 2021]

Did they say what will happen when he comes of the register will things go back to normal for him if he waits till then .

[Need help 2021]

Do give an update of what they say . How often are they comeing to see you child.

[lb93]

yeah things will be normal when he’s off the register, and he’s only on probation licence for 2 years, i will keep you updated, and not often at all, i have unannounced visits which is either every 2/3 weeks sometimes longer but they never try speak to her or anything just ask if we are doing ok and look around the house and go

[Need help 2021]

If you don’t mind me asking is it ok if you can speck on the phone it’s nice to speck to someone that are in the same boat

[lb93]

that’s no problem at all, private message me your number il save it and drop you a text and i know how you feel i don’t know anyone that’s going through the same, i know people that been involved with social due to like domestic violence or drugs/alcohol but no one with sex offence so id be more than happy to keep in touch