Don't like how the children think due to dad
Posted: Sun Aug 16, 2020 3:44 pm
Hi my two eldest grandchildren live with their dad due to my daughter having a mental breakdown. There is no court order stating that the kids must reside with their dad.. The attitude my grandkids have towards their mum (my daughter) is awful although my daughter hasn't helped the fact that when they ask her questions about the past she clams up and doesn't give them answers. My daughter and the kids dad split up years ago. They have only been living with dad for just over a year. They have never Really comuncated. And from what I can gather thier father has been saying stuff around the kids and I belive this is why the think as they do. The kids day don't mind contact as long as I'm there which is fine by me.. I'm granddaughter I Really feel for as she's growing into a lady I feel she's missing out on girly stuff due to 2males in the household. He doesn't like her to wear anything too girly makeup or nails and is often told off by her brother for wanting to be more girly he states she's not allowed. I know my granddaughter misses girly time with mum which is why I tend to have her sleep over at mine most weekends. I wanting advise on how to go about speaking to their dad on the attitude he gives off to my grandchildren. He needs to let her be a girl and stop putting the wrong things into their head.. Any suggustions pls