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Kitty 33
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Pams assessment

Post by Kitty 33 » Thu Oct 28, 2021 12:30 pm

Hi there my daughter is naw 10 weeks old we are having to do a oams assessment sum of the session are whit me on my own then sum of the session are me and my ex together eany way most of the session are nothink to do whit peranting and sum are observations at contact I thought the assessment was to do whit peranting I mean sum of the session are about safe relationships and stuff like what we think our strengths and weakness are as a peranthaw do we no that when we don't have our daughter it's stupid dose eany one have a good outcome on theses assessment

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Re: Pams assessment

Post by Queen bee » Sun Oct 31, 2021 7:21 pm

We had a pams assessment, my partner at the time failed it, it was his second one and he failed them both. I passed it but was told me and him couldn’t bring our baby up as a couple…a lot has gone on for us but we are now not together and both my babies are on a court order. The social worker that did my pams assessment told us that most people fail them as couples.

Kitty 33
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Re: Pams assessment

Post by Kitty 33 » Mon Nov 01, 2021 2:46 pm

Why did you have to do the assessment twice

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Re: Pams assessment

Post by Queen bee » Mon Nov 01, 2021 4:14 pm

I didn’t my ex did, he did it twice because he lost his second baby to adoption so had to redo it to see if he was able to keep our 2 babies but he failed it so he doesn’t have them

Kitty 33
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Re: Pams assessment

Post by Kitty 33 » Mon Nov 01, 2021 7:22 pm

Is it easy to do I start mine tomorrow

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Re: Pams assessment

Post by Queen bee » Tue Nov 02, 2021 10:32 pm

I found it easy but everyone’s different. My ex struggled with his that’s why he failed it. They’re very long and they ask you loads of different things, work from pictures etc

Kitty 33
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Re: Pams assessment

Post by Kitty 33 » Wed Nov 03, 2021 8:24 am

Ok

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