My partner is low risk but still on sex offender register

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Kitty 33
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My partner is low risk but still on sex offender register

Post by Kitty 33 » Tue Jun 15, 2021 8:16 am

Hi there am 29 weeks pregnant got 2 session left of the pre birth assessment my bf is on the sex offender register but he is aloud around children can social services still tell us to split up and will they still stop him having contact once baby comes

Queen bee
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Re: My partner is low risk but still on sex offender register

Post by Queen bee » Tue Jun 15, 2021 2:43 pm

Yes they can ask you to separate and he will probably have him on supervised contact depending what their concerns are

Kitty 33
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Re: My partner is low risk but still on sex offender register

Post by Kitty 33 » Tue Jun 15, 2021 3:06 pm

See if we separate I will have no where to live

Kitty 33
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Re: My partner is low risk but still on sex offender register

Post by Kitty 33 » Tue Jun 15, 2021 3:13 pm

They are mostly concerned about is offence and my peranting

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Re: My partner is low risk but still on sex offender register

Post by Squish » Wed Jun 16, 2021 10:02 pm

They cant make you split up but they could ask you or him to separate houses so he isn't living with you I'd assume. I'm also assuming he's the babies dad? If so they have to work with him as he has patently responsibility.

Kitty 33
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Re: My partner is low risk but still on sex offender register

Post by Kitty 33 » Wed Jun 16, 2021 10:32 pm

Yes he is the babys dad this flat is his thp and I don't hv eanyway eks to go

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Re: My partner is low risk but still on sex offender register

Post by CFJ222 » Wed Jul 14, 2021 5:41 pm

The LA can advise you to split up but not actually force you. If you are asked to split up my advice is to do as they say but to firmly say that any plan needs to be working you back together as a family.

The LA will be concerned that you are dependent on a sex offended for living accomadation. They will not like this. Also their concern is why do you choose to be with a sex offended. They will need to complete an assesment and my advice to you is show them that you choose your child over him and that you are in control of the situation. Be sure to be educated on his risk and show you are capable of managing his risk.

Any risk you pose or your partner poses dont see this has a fight against the LA. Accept it, understand it then say, right, what can you do to reduce or eliminate the risk.

Kitty 33
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Re: My partner is low risk but still on sex offender register

Post by Kitty 33 » Wed Jul 14, 2021 6:38 pm

well the pre birth assesment as been done we should have got the out come on the 9th jluy then we did not get it naw they say we are ment to have got it 2 day and still not heard eanythink my soliciter as evan tried to chase them up for it but they have not replyed to her i have evan text to try find out what was happening but still not heard eanythink from them at all

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