Wrongly accused... now what?
Posted: Tue Apr 06, 2021 8:14 pm
Hi,
So I am looking for some advice regarding how we move on from the situation we have found ourselves in and how and if we can make a formal complaint.
Around 6 weeks ago my 10 month old son became poorly, at the time all of the symptoms he had pointed to an ear infection and also teething.. my initial suspicion for the ear infection was that he was pulling quite ferociously on his outer ear to the point he'd caused a slight pea sized bruise on the outer cartilidge. I took him to the GP, the nurse we saw claimed he had a waxy ear and to treat with olive oil. Which we did.
As the week progressed he was not improving and was still spiking temperature and went completely off his food. One morning he projectile vomited all of his milk and I was concerned due to lack of fluids he would become dehydrated. I called 111 and was advised to take him up to the local a&e to have him checked out.
On arrival he was admitted and treated on a sepsis pathway as they said that he had an infection but they could not find the route of it.
The following day I was visited by the consultant and she informed me that the bruise he had caused could not possibly caused by himself and would need to be investigated as it was unexplained. I was then seen by a hospital safeguarding officer and advised he would need skeletal survey, ct scan and ophthalmology scan. These were all completed and came back clear.. as we expected.
A strategy meeting took place and we were told he would only be allowed to come home under a supervision order in which my mum had to come and stay with us around the clock whilst they completed a section 47 assessment.
Since then social services have completed 3 visits (1 unannounced due to timeframe of them taking to complete) and we are awaiting the report however have been told the case has been closed and is NFA.
Whilst we understand there are policies in place to protect vulnerable children, however we feel we have been subject to very intrusive investigation based on the fact we were not believed by one doctor. Since his discharge 2 other doctors that we have consulted have said it is completely plausible and you have just been unlucky, however they wouldn't go head to head against another doctor.. this leaves a very sour taste as we are now stuck in limbo with a section 47 hanging over our head and are we now expected to just get on with it seems due to the fact our little boy wasnt taken away from us it isn't serious enough... despite the fact the sw claimed he would have been if not for my mum being able to come and stay with us.
Has anyone been through this where they have been wrongly accused and what next steps can we take to clear ours and ultimately our little boys name x
So I am looking for some advice regarding how we move on from the situation we have found ourselves in and how and if we can make a formal complaint.
Around 6 weeks ago my 10 month old son became poorly, at the time all of the symptoms he had pointed to an ear infection and also teething.. my initial suspicion for the ear infection was that he was pulling quite ferociously on his outer ear to the point he'd caused a slight pea sized bruise on the outer cartilidge. I took him to the GP, the nurse we saw claimed he had a waxy ear and to treat with olive oil. Which we did.
As the week progressed he was not improving and was still spiking temperature and went completely off his food. One morning he projectile vomited all of his milk and I was concerned due to lack of fluids he would become dehydrated. I called 111 and was advised to take him up to the local a&e to have him checked out.
On arrival he was admitted and treated on a sepsis pathway as they said that he had an infection but they could not find the route of it.
The following day I was visited by the consultant and she informed me that the bruise he had caused could not possibly caused by himself and would need to be investigated as it was unexplained. I was then seen by a hospital safeguarding officer and advised he would need skeletal survey, ct scan and ophthalmology scan. These were all completed and came back clear.. as we expected.
A strategy meeting took place and we were told he would only be allowed to come home under a supervision order in which my mum had to come and stay with us around the clock whilst they completed a section 47 assessment.
Since then social services have completed 3 visits (1 unannounced due to timeframe of them taking to complete) and we are awaiting the report however have been told the case has been closed and is NFA.
Whilst we understand there are policies in place to protect vulnerable children, however we feel we have been subject to very intrusive investigation based on the fact we were not believed by one doctor. Since his discharge 2 other doctors that we have consulted have said it is completely plausible and you have just been unlucky, however they wouldn't go head to head against another doctor.. this leaves a very sour taste as we are now stuck in limbo with a section 47 hanging over our head and are we now expected to just get on with it seems due to the fact our little boy wasnt taken away from us it isn't serious enough... despite the fact the sw claimed he would have been if not for my mum being able to come and stay with us.
Has anyone been through this where they have been wrongly accused and what next steps can we take to clear ours and ultimately our little boys name x