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by QuestionMark
Fri Mar 27, 2020 3:35 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Can I complain? If I do complain will it be used against me?
Replies: 0
Views: 43

Can I complain? If I do complain will it be used against me?

The case is closed. I’ve boiled down my complaints to one; but I’m afraid that if I complain now, it’ll be used against me in the future if I have another child. Any advice? Do I have a right to complain? Am I safe to complain?
by QuestionMark
Thu Mar 26, 2020 7:38 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: The Coronavirus is impacting contact
Replies: 4
Views: 381

Re: The Coronavirus is impacting contact

The President of the family division has released a statement on this issue if you just google it :) You are right, if both households are healthy then children can travel between the homes! Unfortunately, my situation is similar - used to get one full day and one might, and I’ve been reduced down t...
by QuestionMark
Fri Mar 20, 2020 5:15 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Has anyone had negative repercussions for complaining?
Replies: 0
Views: 365

Has anyone had negative repercussions for complaining?

Case was closed and now I’ve had help putting a complaint together, but I’m afraid they’ll get involved again if I complain.

What’s the experience others have had after putting complaints in? I just want to raise the issues but I want them to leave me alone too
by QuestionMark
Tue Mar 17, 2020 1:35 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: The Coronavirus is impacting contact
Replies: 4
Views: 381

The Coronavirus is impacting contact

What can parents do when contact is being withdrawn due to this virus? Obviously we all want our children to be safe and healthy, so what is going to happen when court orders start being ignored and how can we at least make up lost time?
by QuestionMark
Tue Feb 25, 2020 8:12 am
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Fractures
Replies: 4
Views: 859

Re: Fractures

Can you think of any other way they may have gotten these fractures?
by QuestionMark
Mon Feb 24, 2020 5:24 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Boyfriend with a caution
Replies: 7
Views: 383

Re: Boyfriend with a caution

Does he care for his children? As I imagine that would be a positive that children’s services will take into account
by QuestionMark
Mon Feb 24, 2020 5:23 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Do I have to tell
Replies: 1
Views: 216

Re: Do I have to tell

I would do otherwise you may be accused on lying to professionals
by QuestionMark
Mon Feb 24, 2020 5:11 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Boyfriend with a caution
Replies: 7
Views: 383

Re: Boyfriend with a caution

It may be worth him being proactive and looking into any courses he can do around child protection - look on the NSPCC website (they do online courses for £20). If they begin to show any concern though, I’d be prepared to end the relationship for your boys
by QuestionMark
Mon Feb 24, 2020 3:52 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Boyfriend with a caution
Replies: 7
Views: 383

Re: Boyfriend with a caution

Hi hun, So sorry you’ve been through all you have. I too lost my baby to her dad for the same reasons, he still has residency. Well done for getting shared care and putting all the work in! I think the only thing they may have concern for is your current boyfriend - how long ago did he receive this ...
by QuestionMark
Sat Feb 15, 2020 12:11 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: How can I help my LO?
Replies: 1
Views: 480

How can I help my LO?

Since CAO holder stopped weekday contact (explained on previous post), LO has became teary, more tantrums, staying up later despite being tired insisting that they want to play, and seems subdued at times and doesn’t respond when you talk to them. I’m worried, but as non resident parent what can I d...