But is taking me to court as social have told me if I allow contact my children will be put on a plan which will make me loose my job

Did your ex wife have to agree to your parents doing the contact?

I’m currently going through the family courts as social services have told me I can’t allow my ex to have contact with our 3 kids. He hasn’t been charged (yet)

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Not quite same scenario, but my ex was arrested for possession of IIOC . We had 2 children together and I was pregnant with our 3rd at the time. I split it up with him the day it happened - he too made out he was innocent, made it out to be less than it was etc and I was told the same - I’m not allo...

My ex partner was arrested over 18 months ago, this triggered children’s services involvement. They have been nothing but troublesome for me. Because of my job involving children, it has caused me a lot of problems having them involved - so I was told to allow him no contact and they’d leave me alon...

Have they not already been involved? Soon as my ex was arrested it triggered social services. He hasn’t been charged yet, but they have been involved ever since . They have been awful to me and I haven’t done anything wrong - I’ve been told to allow no contact with any of our kids and I’m not allowe...