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by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Dec 07, 2021 5:20 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: MCA & Child and Family Assessment
Replies: 1
Views: 394

MCA & Child and Family Assessment

Hi, I know some of you on here may remember me and you know I take a dim view of the draconian and often shambolic extent of the way the child protection departments perform their duties, but I think I'm beginning to get proof I was correct all along, and I have some fair questions. I have an offend...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Nov 10, 2021 2:23 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 79
Views: 123872

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Regarding City's update: Immense congratulations on getting your SHPO removed; in all my enquiries into the same, the message seems to be that there is not a cat in hell's chance if the police oppose the application, no judge would go against them. You obviously had a good lawyer or cut a strong imp...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Jan 01, 2021 1:27 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Tiers
Replies: 0
Views: 1125

Tiers

Happy new tier everyone. Just in case anybody is wondering or worried (I was), even being in tier 4 should not affect the contact you are having, whatever the circumstances - if it is an existing arrangement it can continue. So don't be told otherwise, or allow it to be twisted. Here is the proof, d...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Mon Dec 14, 2020 12:44 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social services lying
Replies: 10
Views: 6735

Re: Social services lying

'This perhaps highlights the importance of serious cases being decided within the court arena, as it affords a necessary level of assessment, independence and scrutiny.' Yes, that's all well and good, but what about the immense time and stress and (probably) money involved in this? Parents do not re...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sat Nov 28, 2020 7:50 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social services lying
Replies: 10
Views: 6735

Re: Social services lying

they made the news as they were graded 'INADEQUATE'. Well, that does not narrow down which Local Authority, HH_Dad, the anonymity is safe. Many things about their way of working and policies and premises and attitude cannot be right . You have a human rights violation in the account you gave, but pr...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Oct 21, 2020 4:33 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: What happens now.
Replies: 3
Views: 3044

Re: What happens now.

Completely disgraceful you should be left hanging like this. Disgraceful that you should be treated to all effects as a potential 'culprit' in a some way by the the initial investigation by the SS, like you are possibly responsible for the rape of your daughter in some way by not caring for her; YES...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Oct 21, 2020 4:20 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social services to take my newborn?
Replies: 2
Views: 1875

Re: Social services to take my newborn?

Horrendous that you should have to have such fear, and I hope the advisors on here can give you some concrete encouragement. It's obvious from the way you write that you are intelligent and coherent, and you sound perfectly capable of being a good loving parent. Hopefully you'll get SS visitors (if ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Sep 25, 2020 6:25 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: RSO Children’s services POSITIVE stories?!
Replies: 2
Views: 2455

Re: RSO Children’s services POSITIVE stories?!

Our story isn't a positive one, but try to remember all those who has a positive experience will not use this site, or post their experiences online - SS involvement isn't something you advertise, even when they've been really helpful. So try to remember the internet has a 'negativity bias - that's ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Sep 25, 2020 6:03 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: should the LA be doing more
Replies: 3
Views: 2213

Re: should the LA be doing more

'A further 6 months past..' All too familiar story. Austerity or not, this is totally unacceptable. These are people's lives being put on hold and family relationships being strangulated. Personally I don't care how much pressure the SS are under or how few staff etc etc, it's just not acceptable on...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Mon Aug 03, 2020 9:13 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: No contact allowed despite no risk assessment result
Replies: 2
Views: 2673

Re: No contact allowed despite no risk assessment result

'The conviction is spent'. That should be the end of the matter, by any sense of logic and fair play. If this is true, then it means he committed a certain set of offences (or maybe even just one individual offence) and that that set of offences has been specifically addressed by the sentence, and t...