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by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed May 20, 2020 10:34 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Wrongfully accused / CAFCASS / court
Replies: 2
Views: 592

Re: Wrongfully accused / CAFCASS / court

'is there is not the idea of innocent until proven guilty?' No, quite the opposite where social services are concerned. They have not heard of the very foundation of English criminal justice which states "nobody shall have their liberties curtailed based on supposition", or they just arrogantly don'...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Apr 03, 2020 12:03 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: The Coronavirus is impacting contact
Replies: 8
Views: 1289

Re: The Coronavirus is impacting contact

'In such situations, contacting the social worker to discuss or explain their personal situation should help to clarify future contact arrangements.' Yeah sure. If you can get through to them, especially now, and even if you do how many weeks before it goes through the channels with their superiors ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Dec 31, 2019 1:11 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: What to do, why are we not being left Alone?
Replies: 5
Views: 1609

Re: What to do, why are we not being left Alone?

Whether there or genuine concerns or not for the children's welfare, everything about this case points to what an utter shambles the CS are and simply unfit for purpose. Their workload is so high they can't cope - but is it surprising when the protocol for intervention is so rigorous and automatic, ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sat Nov 23, 2019 6:01 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: looking for help and advice
Replies: 5
Views: 1485

Re: looking for help and advice

It's 21 days while they 'work out what to do' (expect this to get shifted ad infinitum), because basically they don't yet have a clue due to hopeless under-resourcing (for which you, the service users are penalized in the form of your human rights). It's currently a box-ticking exercise, because thi...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Nov 10, 2019 6:24 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Partner has aniexty.
Replies: 4
Views: 1116

Re: Partner has aniexty.

If they didn't have anxiety already, anybody is going to have after social services involvement. Not support, not safeguarding: Harassment, pure and simple.
by PerfectlySafeDad
Mon Sep 16, 2019 10:49 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Any advice welcome, lost and confused!
Replies: 17
Views: 4373

Re: Any advice welcome, lost and confused!

'however my partner was never charged or even arrested so I don't understand how this can follow him for so long and affect our lives so much.' Because it's a witch hunt, simple. And CS are at the vanguard of it, and absolute incompetent back-covering ***s. They care only about themselves and not th...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Aug 13, 2019 3:05 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: REDACTED
Replies: 2
Views: 1006

Re: Pregnant after having children removed 7 years ago, what to expect?

Stockpile every scrap of positive evidence you have that you are now in control and a responsible, healthy parent in a stable situation: Doctor's reference as to how your mental health has been for a long time and your reliability in taking medication and using other support available; similar menta...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Aug 02, 2019 9:02 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: section 47 advice
Replies: 19
Views: 4032

Re: section 47 advice

As a parent who has been trampled all over by these people, well done S! You are doing exactly the right thing by insisting on written records, dates, appropriate qualifications, even witnesses and demanding a specific explanation as to what they are investigating/concerned about. This will make it ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Jul 23, 2019 10:20 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Worried about my nephew
Replies: 2
Views: 900

Re: Worried about my nephew

Difficult situation, and hard to know what to advice apart from the usual 'roll over and do everything they say', but this inevitably means being bullied and even literally signing over parental rights (if it gets to the stage of signing child protection plans etc) to the local authority. The only t...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Jul 23, 2019 9:55 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: New partner on Sex offenders register
Replies: 4
Views: 1543

Re: New partner on Sex offenders register

They'll be getting in touch with you for sure, because they 'have to' (their usual language). They're pathetic and have no moderation or common sense. They've had a 'referral' so they'll make sure to act on it, to cover their backs over any slightest risk they can imagine they can see. ... It's an o...