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by oneafter900
Wed Jul 21, 2021 1:25 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 79
Views: 120113

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

I started this thread over 5 years ago - anyone fancy an update? Its now 3 years since the family court made an indefinite supervised order and therefore i’ve been assisted every Sunday by my parents at their family home. I moved out finally last year and have my own place and am currently trying t...
by oneafter900
Wed Jul 21, 2021 12:50 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Pre birth assessment and ability to be a family
Replies: 5
Views: 965

Re: Pre birth assessment and ability to be a family

Hi My advice is to oppose CS from the beginning. They are not your friends and the path of least resistance (your husband moving out) is what they happy to enforce into perpetuity. CS turned my wife against me 5 years ago before the birth of our second child (you can find my story on here) I bitterl...
by oneafter900
Wed Jan 09, 2019 9:22 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 79
Views: 120113

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Sorry buy it's world and granny don't owe u anything stop blaming children's services perfectly safe dad youbhave rambled on this post none stop blaming everyone but yourself u were the one who committed the crime and u have to accept it and I know u will now say you DO ACCEPT it but u clearly don'...
by oneafter900
Sun Sep 09, 2018 2:57 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 79
Views: 120113

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

I was the starter of this thread so i though i would provide an update. CS closed their child in need case in January 2017 with the recommendation that the children's mother not allow me unsupervised access, albeit as they were closing the case it was at her discretion. When we asked what would happ...
by oneafter900
Tue Jul 11, 2017 12:41 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I'm a sex offender dad and I want my family back
Replies: 12
Views: 21094

Re: I'm a sex offender dad and I want my family back

Sorry what?!!! My experience has not been positive. SS dragged it out until my wife basically agreed to break up with me. When i was removed from my home i was 33. I have just turned 36. I have missed my daughter going from a barely walking toddler to a fully fledged little girl with personality and...
by oneafter900
Mon May 08, 2017 8:25 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I'm a sex offender dad and I want my family back
Replies: 12
Views: 21094

Re: I'm a sex offender dad and I want my family back

I have posted in another thread and am an offender who was convicted of child porn offences in December 2015 after being arrested in april 2015 My advice for any wife/partner js to stick to your guns and fight them as soon as you can without risking your children. CS made me wife and I tow the line ...
by oneafter900
Tue Nov 08, 2016 9:52 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 79
Views: 120113

Re: I am a sex offender father please help me

Thought I would provide an update after dropping back in here. Certainly agree with the poster above about a lack of consistency in the legal and social care approach to IOC. My QC in the court said i could go to jail because Inhad class A preteen images and videos - which i was not expecting at all...
by oneafter900
Mon Jan 18, 2016 10:05 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I am a sex offender father please help me
Replies: 79
Views: 120113

I am a sex offender father please help me

So, please be nice but I desperately need some advice about the long term implications of my family's situation. I was arrested last year for possession of indecent images and bailed. I could not return home to my wife and daughter (aged 2) and was only allowed access under supervision by (at first)...