Hi, thanks for this post. My partner is due in magistrates in a couple of weeks. Do you mind me asking the amount of iioc you were found with please? I completely understand if you don't want to disclose that as its quite personal. My partner has 2 cancelled downloads, and a couple fully downloaded ...

Hi, thanks again for your reply. I'm just a very anxious person, nothing has changed at all since the last involvement, I think I just assume the worst as we had so many issues with CS until our final social worker who managed to sort things out. The solicitor has said there's potential for an arres...

Thank you, from what his solicitor has said and the outcome from his 2nd interview, nothing else has been found other than those that caused all this in the first place. I've done a course that CS recommended so I was able to be the main person to provide contact so I really hope this can carry on a...

Hello, It's been almost 2 years since the knock, 12 months since any involvement from CS, and my partner has had a call today saying his case has been taken to magistrates court next month. My entire world has been shaken up again, we have lived an almost normal life (granted that has been with supe...

Hi Suzie, Thank you for your reply. Back to everything being a waiting game now. There's no more evidence other than what he was originally arrested for which I'm relieved about, they questioned him and have now sent it for the courts to decide on whether they want to charge him or not. His solicito...

Hi We are now 17 months since "the knock" partner has a voluntary interview tomorrow and my anxiety is through the roof. I feel sick, scared, we have supervised contact but he isn't allowed to live in the home, I'm allowed to do the contact and CS are happy for me to carry on with that and...

How did you get on Thursday? We had no end of problems with CS, 4 different social workers and it wasn't until I made a complaint to a community social worker that things were then escalated and resolved. We are now signed off from the CIN plan and just have to follow a safety plan until the investi...

Hello, We originally started on a CIN plan and have since been signed off. We had similar experiences, last minute meetings, visits etc in the space of 9 months we had 4 different social workers. We now have no social worker at all but we are on a safety plan, my partner isn't allowed to be in the f...

Hi, is there a certain amount of time that CS can refuse contact between child and parent when on a CIN due to iioc?
I've told them I want there to be contact but they are refusing without reason.

Got the knock in April, investigation still ongoing now!
Social dragging their feet there's been no contact since the arrest between partner and child.

Inbox is open If you want a chat, it's a very lonely place to be