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by EDY92
Mon May 03, 2021 7:56 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Can Social workers change my birth plan?
Replies: 5
Views: 4128

Re: Can Social workers change my birth plan?

I was pregnant at the time social services became involved with me (my partner , now ex was arrested for IIOC) I was told by social services he couldn’t be at the birth, unless it was supervised by his family member who was supervising the contact. With covid , I wasn’t allowed two birthing partners...
by EDY92
Tue Mar 23, 2021 8:16 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: IIOC found on ex partners device
Replies: 6
Views: 2989

Re: IIOC found on ex partners device

I have done e they’ve said, this is why I’m so annoyed. They approved the family member to do the contact, and I stuck to the plan of them always being present and arranging the contact through them so I 100% knew they’d be there and I made sure when I dropped the children off that family member cam...
by EDY92
Tue Mar 23, 2021 8:06 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Birth assessment
Replies: 14
Views: 4302

Re: Birth assessment

So pleased to hear your good news!

What did he get removed can I ask? And how long was it in for?

I’m just wondering if my ex is going to get 5 years or 10 years on register but then I’ve heard of other things they can give you
by EDY92
Fri Mar 19, 2021 8:32 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Birth assessment
Replies: 14
Views: 4302

Re: Birth assessment

No matter what happens its going to break my heart we have been together for nearly 10 years and we been though so much stuff together and we just want that change to be a family but if the out come is bad and I have to leav I will have no choice to leav evan tho it will break ny heart my child mea...
by EDY92
Fri Mar 19, 2021 8:04 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Birth assessment
Replies: 14
Views: 4302

Re: Birth assessment

It's the first time we have meet the ss workers 2 day and I just broke down after they left we told them about going to court and they said you will have to let us no what happens cause that will have to be part of the assessment but if worts casue comes I will be moving out I carnt have my baby ta...
by EDY92
Fri Mar 19, 2021 7:48 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Birth assessment
Replies: 14
Views: 4302

Re: Birth assessment

I don't hv eanyway where els to go to if I hv to leav my partner I don't hv family or eanythink just hv to see what happens I court and hopefully we get the sopo removed They won’t care about that unfortunately, I was in a mortgage with my ex , he’s been suspended from work on full pay so he’s come...
by EDY92
Fri Mar 19, 2021 6:07 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Birth assessment
Replies: 14
Views: 4302

Re: Birth assessment

From my personal experience , I very much doubt they’ll allow him to live with you.. or be allowed unsupervised access. My partner was arrested over a year ago, he’s now my ex due to me being told if I carried on in a relationship with him my kids would be taken off me. My children will always come ...
by EDY92
Sat Mar 13, 2021 3:07 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: IIOC found on ex partners device
Replies: 6
Views: 2989

IIOC found on ex partners device

12 months ago now, my partner at the time was arrested on suspicion on IIOC I left him, have done everything social workers have told me to (left him, don’t speak to him unless it’s arranging contact) despite this, they are constantly telling me to not let him have contact, try to scare me saying my...
by EDY92
Mon Jul 27, 2020 9:34 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Ex partner and baby’s dad not allowed at birth?
Replies: 1
Views: 2218

Ex partner and baby’s dad not allowed at birth?

A few months back my now ex partner was arrested for IIOC. The investigation is still on going, he hasn’t been charged yet and social services put my children on a children in need plan, now they’re off that as were no longer a couple, kids only having supervised contact with a family member. I’m du...
by EDY92
Sun Jul 05, 2020 10:44 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Partner arrested on suspicion of IIOC
Replies: 3
Views: 3679

Re: Partner arrested on suspicion of IIOC

Hello I am in need of some advice again please I have received my children in need report and there are TONS of lies and things that aren’t true. No further action has been taken until the police complete their investigation. However, I want to know why my medical records have been shared in this re...