Needing advice
Posted: Mon Sep 28, 2020 3:46 pm
Hi, I currently have social work involvement as 2 years ago I took my daughter to a&e concerned about her ear and then was accused by the doctors of causing harm to her they have if down as a non accidental injury...only myself and my partner at the time would have been the ones to look after her so ever since we have been looked at as child abusers when neither of us caused harm to her...we both are still being investigated by police however after having to live at my mum's with my children and being supervised, back in February I got to return home with my children and social have a supervision order in place until July 2021...during the time it put alot of pressure on myself and my partner as I was heavily pregnant when we were being accused and going through everything and then along came our daughter...all three of my children were put on risk register...me living at my mum's meant I was constantly there with my children and no longer had time for my relationship so we ended up splitting up however I have never stopped loving him and now that I am home with my children and he also gets to have our daughter (my other two children are not biologically his) at the weekends we have been thinking about giving things another go as neither of us have been able to move on...the only thing is during our break up he had a break down as he felt like he had lost everything and one night he showed up and my mum's door looking to take our daughter so social made me get a non molestation order out on him however it was dropped last year as I knew he was just going through a hard time and now he is able to come and pick our daughter up and return her my only worry is that social have always seemed to not want us being together...I just want to know if social finding out about us giving things another go will it make them re think about me being at home with the kids and also they have talked about de registration for the kids next month?