I am worried and heartbroken by their lack of empathy

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Monimac
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I am worried and heartbroken by their lack of empathy

Post by Monimac » Thu Jun 17, 2021 1:59 am

ITS 2 30 IN THE MORNING I AM SHELL SHOCKED AND CANNOT GET MY HEAD AROUND WHAT HAPPENED THIS AFTERNOON TO MY FAMILY AND COMPLETELY IN THE DARK AS TO WHAT I CAN DO TO MAKE IT BETTER.

WE ARE ALL TRAUMATISED BY the way my 12 year old GRANDSON was bundled into a car without our knowledge and taken off this afternoon. I got a call from HIS SOCIAL WORKER following behind the car taking MY GRANDSON to xxxxx FROM xxxxxxx saying “someone has to tell you that Your grandson won’t be coming home tonight we have taken him from school”

He only has the clothes he is wearing and doesn’t even have a sim yet in his new telephone. And I didn’t even get to say goodbye or ask him if he was ok. I CANT STOP CRYING AND I STILL HAVEN'T SPOKEN TO HIM BECAUSE NO ONE HAS GIVEN ME CONTACT DETAILS. I HAVE COMPLAINED TO THE IRO but he has not replied yet.

I NEED TO KNOW IF HE IS SAFE AND NOT UPSET BY TODAYS SHOCKING EVENTS I WOULD HAVE THOUGHT SOMEONE WOULD HAVE ASKED HIM DO YOU WANT TO SPEAK TO YOUR NANA IM SURE SHES WORRIED HOW YOU ARE COPING ???????

CAN SOMEBODY PLEASE TELL ME HOW COME MY HOUSE AND MY LOVING CARE WAS ENOUGH FOR 5 WEEKS BUT SUDDENLY BECAME UNSAFE. BEFORE MY ASSESSMENT TO KINSHIP CARE WAS FULLY COMPLETED. MY HUSBAND ARE I BOTH COMPLETELY DEVASTATED. WE FEEL WE HAVE BEEN CRUELLY USED AND TREATED APPALLINGLY. ALREADY MY GRANDSON IS MISSING OUT ON VITAL SCHOOLING BECAUSE THE CHILDRENS HOME IS 2 1/2 hours DRIVE TO HIS PRESENT SCHOOL WHEN HE WAS PROMISED HE COULD FINISH THIS TERM. WE WERE ASKING SOCIAL SERVICES TO SLOW DOWN INSTEAD THEY ACCELERATED AND TREATED HIM LIKE A CRIMINAL AND CARTED HIM OFF WITH JUST THE THINGS HE WAS STANDING IN NOT EVEN A TOOTHBRUSH. THEY HAD MOVED HIM INTO OUR HOUSE LOCK STOCK AND BARREL 5 weeks BEFORE I HAD SIGNED A TEMPORARY PLACEMENT FORM AND UNDERSTOOD THIS TO BE FOR 16 WEEKS. WHICH SOCIAL SERVICES ARE NOW DENYING HE WAS HAPPY AND SETTLED WITH US AND WANTED TO STAY AND AS WE HAD BEEN KINSHIP CARERS IN THE PAST FOR HIS BROTHER WE ASKED TO BE REASSESSED SO WE COULD KEEP HIM NEAR HIS FAMILY

HOW I WISH IT WASN'T TRUE BUT TO CHILDREN'S SERVICES xxxx IS JUST A NAME ON A PIECE OF PAPER SADLY WE HAVE TO TRUST THEM WITH OUR LOVED ONES WE EXPECTED SO MUCH MORE FROM THEM.
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