Please, Urgent Help Needed!
Posted: Tue Mar 26, 2024 10:45 pm
Hi,
We have 2 children aged 4 & 12 and have a ICPC meeting in 2 days.
Child 12 is currently in his second year of college and is being bullied since day the beginning. He would come home upset, damage to uniform and belongings, bruises, missing money etc
He has raised multiple complaints with teachers and Head Teacher but no one has done an investigation. Child over the past year and a half has developed a bad behaviour towards school, home and only find his comfort in gaming where he's having an addiction.
3 weeks ago, child 12 comes home yet with another detention due to incomplete homework and blamed on parents for not giving enough screen time.
We spoke to him and gave him some time to finish the homework whilst we prepare dinner until we heard a loud bang on the first floor.
Dad goes up to check and found child 12 on the floor. Asked what happened, child said he fell down whilst spinning on the chair. Dad checked his laptop and realised he was gaming instead of doing his homework. Dad told him off and said he will ban him from all gaming if homework is not completed and one more negative or detention.
Child 12 goes to school the next day, we noticed a bruise on the cheek and asked how he sustained it, he said when he fell.
The following week, child 12 receives a negative and lied to the teacher by saying he dad had hit him and this has triggered social services to get involved. 2 days later, child 12 confesses that he lied and was lead by his friends to lie about his dad so that legally, dad won't be able to stop him from gaming.
Now, we have received reports from health visitors, head teacher of child 4, hospital who assessed bruises of child 12 and all concluded his bruises was as a result of inflicted rather than accidental. That week of the fall from the chair, Child was bullied and pushed into a bush and sustained bruises and had a limp for several days including the day he fell off his chair. Dad sent an email to school the next day to report the incident.
Dad has never hit him however they have shown concerns to something in the past where Dad & Mum had a row and Mum called the police to say she was hit by dad but it never happened and no charges was pressed.
How can we defend ourselves?
Apology for the long details but this has caused us so much distress where all the authorities have made serious false allegation against us!
We have 2 children aged 4 & 12 and have a ICPC meeting in 2 days.
Child 12 is currently in his second year of college and is being bullied since day the beginning. He would come home upset, damage to uniform and belongings, bruises, missing money etc
He has raised multiple complaints with teachers and Head Teacher but no one has done an investigation. Child over the past year and a half has developed a bad behaviour towards school, home and only find his comfort in gaming where he's having an addiction.
3 weeks ago, child 12 comes home yet with another detention due to incomplete homework and blamed on parents for not giving enough screen time.
We spoke to him and gave him some time to finish the homework whilst we prepare dinner until we heard a loud bang on the first floor.
Dad goes up to check and found child 12 on the floor. Asked what happened, child said he fell down whilst spinning on the chair. Dad checked his laptop and realised he was gaming instead of doing his homework. Dad told him off and said he will ban him from all gaming if homework is not completed and one more negative or detention.
Child 12 goes to school the next day, we noticed a bruise on the cheek and asked how he sustained it, he said when he fell.
The following week, child 12 receives a negative and lied to the teacher by saying he dad had hit him and this has triggered social services to get involved. 2 days later, child 12 confesses that he lied and was lead by his friends to lie about his dad so that legally, dad won't be able to stop him from gaming.
Now, we have received reports from health visitors, head teacher of child 4, hospital who assessed bruises of child 12 and all concluded his bruises was as a result of inflicted rather than accidental. That week of the fall from the chair, Child was bullied and pushed into a bush and sustained bruises and had a limp for several days including the day he fell off his chair. Dad sent an email to school the next day to report the incident.
Dad has never hit him however they have shown concerns to something in the past where Dad & Mum had a row and Mum called the police to say she was hit by dad but it never happened and no charges was pressed.
How can we defend ourselves?
Apology for the long details but this has caused us so much distress where all the authorities have made serious false allegation against us!