Need advice
Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2024 7:48 pm
So were do I begin
My ex and I have a child together and my older daughter who is 23 yrs old had an argument with my ex in our home not in front of our 1 year old and my older daughter started shouting and screaming at my ex and my ex pushed her away from him and resulting in her hitting her leg and getting a bruise on her leg from this she called social services on us and so did her employer and from this we had a visit from social services and we had this visit and because well at the time was my partner he got upset and said he did not want to sign paperwork as he thought they would take our child away they made my older daughter go to the police and press charges and he got arrested then social services wanted to remove our youngest child from us as my ex partner has a criminal record from 9 yrs old he went to prison for GBH and also he has a history of smoking weed and also has been accused of stuff but was never charged because there was no evidence against it so basically that clear that laws thing I had to do to see what he’s been accused of, but that can be you. They say you’ve done it but there’s no evidence to prove it. Well anyway they wanted to remove our child from my care but the judge said no and so did the child guardian as there was no grounds to remove our youngest from my care am a working professional never been in trouble with the police and never had ss in my life even as a young mother - but my ex partner is now serving a prison sentence for the assault on my daughter as he plead guilty which is fair enough as he did push her but now we are on a child in need and ss think I am a victim of domestic violence when I am not have gone through the freedom program as that is what they wanted me to do so I did to show am engaging in them as the first social worker visited stated my ex is a violent person becuase of his past and yes he did things 10 years old stupid and was on hard drugs but sorted himself out when he met me and worked full timer and provided for me our child and my other children but now if we ever did decide to get back together after he comes out of prison we could end up back in court
What if I decided to be with him again as I know that what ss have written about him is wrong and is not the person who he was 10 yrs ago how can I make sure we do not end up with our youngest being taken away from us ?
What courses can he do in prison to make sure he has changed ?
My ex and I have a child together and my older daughter who is 23 yrs old had an argument with my ex in our home not in front of our 1 year old and my older daughter started shouting and screaming at my ex and my ex pushed her away from him and resulting in her hitting her leg and getting a bruise on her leg from this she called social services on us and so did her employer and from this we had a visit from social services and we had this visit and because well at the time was my partner he got upset and said he did not want to sign paperwork as he thought they would take our child away they made my older daughter go to the police and press charges and he got arrested then social services wanted to remove our youngest child from us as my ex partner has a criminal record from 9 yrs old he went to prison for GBH and also he has a history of smoking weed and also has been accused of stuff but was never charged because there was no evidence against it so basically that clear that laws thing I had to do to see what he’s been accused of, but that can be you. They say you’ve done it but there’s no evidence to prove it. Well anyway they wanted to remove our child from my care but the judge said no and so did the child guardian as there was no grounds to remove our youngest from my care am a working professional never been in trouble with the police and never had ss in my life even as a young mother - but my ex partner is now serving a prison sentence for the assault on my daughter as he plead guilty which is fair enough as he did push her but now we are on a child in need and ss think I am a victim of domestic violence when I am not have gone through the freedom program as that is what they wanted me to do so I did to show am engaging in them as the first social worker visited stated my ex is a violent person becuase of his past and yes he did things 10 years old stupid and was on hard drugs but sorted himself out when he met me and worked full timer and provided for me our child and my other children but now if we ever did decide to get back together after he comes out of prison we could end up back in court
What if I decided to be with him again as I know that what ss have written about him is wrong and is not the person who he was 10 yrs ago how can I make sure we do not end up with our youngest being taken away from us ?
What courses can he do in prison to make sure he has changed ?