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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2023 7:33 pm
I started to wrte my post and its dissappeared it seems to re write it is going to take too long i have 3 children 9 6 4 12jan my 9&6 years made a serious allegation about me and was lept @school till 7:45pm police & sw brought all3back to me but i had to be supervised 4 3&halfs weeks on 3feb we was put on child@risk i agreed to not chastise my cildren and let the be examined by school nurse (allegation i hit the 6&9year old wih sticks) totally not true did a volunteer police interveiw nfa my children did not do any interveiws 2march all 3was removed because i begged for help with oldest child behaviour all way through took notes was in contact with these fgr advisors i get supervised contact 330-5in a centre tues & fridays im doing everything i can yesterday was the resolution hearing my sw did not complete her tasks so all my focus was fighting for yesterday for it to not go a head i now have to more dates 5th sept and 17oct the sw profile me only did 3/4parenting assessment of course negative the sw telling court i have childhood trauma none of the faters have been involved for 5years yet the oldest is going to live with him none are on birth certificate hes a drinker i raise concerns and hes like this amazing dad my children are suffering little two was split up all 3are separate my youngest is non verbal since this i was very anxious depressed im on 100ml stereline iv completed cbt completed triple p completed a truma course i arrive on time always for contact even thoe my children dont i asked for an independent sw to re do my assessment they told me the youngest child dad wanted no involvement he contacted me on friday knowing nothing about this as i am in contact with hi mother shes been a great support she told him to get in touch the other two dads have violence on record o e is a alcoholic which no one will hear his mother was the one who stayed with me for the three and a half weeks he lives with her yet came no where near yet hes now going to have my daughter live with him when there is no plan for younger too no plan for siblings contact other than when i see all 3in contact im crushed i dont wanna put my children through any more of this trauma the la are doing they all want to come home i want them home what can i do as im fighting and loosing every step of the way can anybody help me please also done a family group conference have a massive support network around me sitters cousins aunts etc youngest one nan too please advice me kind regards
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