HAS ANYONE HAD KIDS RETURNED AFTER PROCEEDINGS????????

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DJKWL
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HAS ANYONE HAD KIDS RETURNED AFTER PROCEEDINGS????????

Post by DJKWL » Sun Mar 03, 2019 11:09 pm

Please.

I am getting so desperate for some hope. Has anyone actually had their kids returned after care proceedings?
We are in week 6. I feel lost. In limbo. Me and my partner both work. We have a nice house. We don't struggle financially. I have struggled for 5 years, openly and tried to get help with my 6 year old. I know he has ADHD. I have tried time and time again to get help, nothing.
I have no hope in the system. I feel our case is rubber stamped already.
I will not survive if I don't get my kids back. My purpose is gone and I hurt like I have never hurt before. My 6 and 17 month old taken.
I am a nurse and work know all about it. They have always known about my issues with my son and struggles.
Please, someone give me a light at the end of the tunnel.

DJKWL
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Re: HAS ANYONE HAD KIDS RETURNED AFTER PROCEEDINGS????????

Post by DJKWL » Sun Mar 03, 2019 11:12 pm

I have been recording my interactions with social services. I have a chronology of my struggles with my son and reports from previous childminders. It's not enough.
Social services call me a mentally unstable drug taker. But are not sending me for a drug test, despite my protest. It is currouption at its best.
I don't know how to keep going. These are my kids and I'm so broken.

SunshineStarRainbow
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Re: HAS ANYONE HAD KIDS RETURNED AFTER PROCEEDINGS????????

Post by SunshineStarRainbow » Wed Mar 06, 2019 4:58 pm

Hi, I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. Regarding their unqualified comments that you are 'mentaly unstable' and a 'drug taker' - get yourself to the GP! Explain to your GP what is going on and ask that you are referred for an assessment and a test - the you can proof SS wrong!

SunshineStarRainbow
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Re: HAS ANYONE HAD KIDS RETURNED AFTER PROCEEDINGS????????

Post by SunshineStarRainbow » Wed Mar 06, 2019 5:02 pm

Also, just to reassure you that it is possible - I know someone who first contacted me via FRG who, although the care proceedings have not finalised, their children are back under supervision (a family member has had to move in) so yes, it is possible

Frazor
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Re: HAS ANYONE HAD KIDS RETURNED AFTER PROCEEDINGS????????

Post by Frazor » Fri Mar 08, 2019 5:12 pm

Yes thankfully still have my children after care proceedings, so many lies were told by social services it is totally wrong that they can attempt to remove a child knowing that the accusations made are total lies after 2 and half years of fighting through court for my children but unfortunately due to lies my children remain on the at risk register and due to having so many different social workers neither one of them admit to the truth although at one lac review meeting the *******social was proven by 3 different services to be making false allegations throughout and reported to her manager nothing was written in writing and i was taken back to court i do not understand how they get away with this. Although different services had reported her i could not prove anything as no one actually stood up in court to defend me. I believe that many services are scared of losing there jobs just like the manager did when he reported the truth but they are all willing to allow parents to lose there children due to nothing but lies.
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Re: HAS ANYONE HAD KIDS RETURNED AFTER PROCEEDINGS????????

Post by Temperance » Wed Mar 13, 2019 6:55 am

I know of one Woman who has had her Child returned after four years, but it wasn’t an easy fight. Contact Legal action for Women and if you can, attend their once monthly meetings.

Sarah Philamore is one of the best Barristers I have had the pleasure of seeing in action. If you have the funding, instruct her immediately.

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