Baby Court Proceedings Finished by my x are getting back together
Posted: Thu Feb 18, 2016 10:48 pm
hi there,
I wonder if anyone can advise me.
My Son was taken into foster care last march - and returned after 26 wk court proceedings with 12 month supervision order. Short version!!!
I am an alcoholic and stopped drinking and using before court and tested clean throughout as I told the court I wanted an ankle band which measures any drop of alcohol 24 hours a day.. to prove to them I never intend drinking again. Judge went for this, of course I cleared it also. X partner whom when police was called out before ss got involved... we were both drunk and or fighting, police call outs were due to me screaming like a nutter when drunk. When I am not drinking and my x partner was we never argued he was always out once a week with with mates after a hard week at work at weekend and went bed quietly when he got in. except if I was drinking and started and it ended badly ... then police would come etc etc.. baby now child arrangement and living order with me mother. however my x and me have been getting on amazing for the last 4 months and he cant have contact without his mum being there and only 2 times per week. they said he uses alcohol chronically which he tested for however, he never drank at home or when left with baby I did... don't obvs now and wouldn't want to .. they are saying he has to do dom violent cause which is 17 week long and he working what a joke and also go alcohol help ... he is happy to do this but they are saying he not contacting them as he at work all day long hours too. we cant win and my baby is loosing out now that we have made so many changes to our family. I just want to go home where my x lives which was our home mine and babys too.. .and he wants that too. just don't know what to do as I know that we love each other and our family deserves a chance to be happy while I am at my mums miserable, don't get me wrong having my baby back is the best thing that has ever happened however he needs his family back too... ahhhh been through so much and really had enough of ss (
I wonder if anyone can advise me.
My Son was taken into foster care last march - and returned after 26 wk court proceedings with 12 month supervision order. Short version!!!
I am an alcoholic and stopped drinking and using before court and tested clean throughout as I told the court I wanted an ankle band which measures any drop of alcohol 24 hours a day.. to prove to them I never intend drinking again. Judge went for this, of course I cleared it also. X partner whom when police was called out before ss got involved... we were both drunk and or fighting, police call outs were due to me screaming like a nutter when drunk. When I am not drinking and my x partner was we never argued he was always out once a week with with mates after a hard week at work at weekend and went bed quietly when he got in. except if I was drinking and started and it ended badly ... then police would come etc etc.. baby now child arrangement and living order with me mother. however my x and me have been getting on amazing for the last 4 months and he cant have contact without his mum being there and only 2 times per week. they said he uses alcohol chronically which he tested for however, he never drank at home or when left with baby I did... don't obvs now and wouldn't want to .. they are saying he has to do dom violent cause which is 17 week long and he working what a joke and also go alcohol help ... he is happy to do this but they are saying he not contacting them as he at work all day long hours too. we cant win and my baby is loosing out now that we have made so many changes to our family. I just want to go home where my x lives which was our home mine and babys too.. .and he wants that too. just don't know what to do as I know that we love each other and our family deserves a chance to be happy while I am at my mums miserable, don't get me wrong having my baby back is the best thing that has ever happened however he needs his family back too... ahhhh been through so much and really had enough of ss (