Baby taken into foster due to DV.
Posted: Mon Aug 22, 2016 4:11 pm
So SS have been involved with me and my ex since the first midwife appointment due to both me and ex being in care which to me is discrimination but apperntly to SS its not, even thought the midwife only had that to refer is to SS.
Since then we've had our baby girl and she is now 9momths and I'm expecting again.
SS have my daughter in foster care due to DV in our relationship, but I believe that my daughters social worker is setting me up.
I understand where they are coming from due to the DV side of things but me and my ex haven't been together for about a month, and they took her 2 weeks ago due to emotional abuse, and reason to believe there could be phsycall abuse but have no evidence of this because well it is not happening! They believe that I can't stay away from my ex, yet the only reason I see him is due to my daughter and his bond with her and obviously to let him know about the new pregnancy.
I have never had any bad reports about my parenting as a single mother from anyone, health vistor , doctors and other professionals always praised me when it comes to my parenting and have always stated that I don't need no help with it, but then social are insisting that I go into a mother and baby assement unit, which confuses me, even confused the judge but they are basing it on the fact that I can't stay away from my ex, but when you have a child with that ex and also pregnant again I can't not see him for the babies sake not mine and his. He isn't violent towards me or his daughter, he has an anger but he doesn't ever use pysicall violence, he only shouts abit to much. But to me this is still not a good enough excuse to take a happy, heathly, advance baby girl away from a mum who is out of the relationship they are saying is the problem.
To cut a long story sort, she is on an interim care order and I am due back to court on the 30th. Me and my ex are not allowed to talk to each other under any circumstances over than the pregnancy but it has to go through social but they are making everything inposible, they have lied about both me and ex in court, they have lied to my mum, when a judge wanted to see her they told her that he said she wasn't necessary anymore, they say I was aggressive when police took baby, but police report say I was only crying hysterically. They have said my daughter has been settling into the new foster placement really well but the foster career told me that she isn't. Social basically took **** because I wouldn't sign a safety plan which meant her farther wasn't allowed contact but I didn't do it unless they changed it to him allowed supervised contact by social which they said they would change but never did and took her. They have made up lies saying I'm on drugs, and I abuse alcohol, which is absolute rubbish, because I despise drugs and I haven't drank alcohol since before I got pregnant with my daughter. Saying I have server mental health, no I had postnatal depression which was for like 2 months and now don't have anymore. I don't know what I can do, because even with all the lies somehow social are always right, and I miss my daughter so much and just want her home with me now and I'm worried they will try and take this baby as well.
Since then we've had our baby girl and she is now 9momths and I'm expecting again.
SS have my daughter in foster care due to DV in our relationship, but I believe that my daughters social worker is setting me up.
I understand where they are coming from due to the DV side of things but me and my ex haven't been together for about a month, and they took her 2 weeks ago due to emotional abuse, and reason to believe there could be phsycall abuse but have no evidence of this because well it is not happening! They believe that I can't stay away from my ex, yet the only reason I see him is due to my daughter and his bond with her and obviously to let him know about the new pregnancy.
I have never had any bad reports about my parenting as a single mother from anyone, health vistor , doctors and other professionals always praised me when it comes to my parenting and have always stated that I don't need no help with it, but then social are insisting that I go into a mother and baby assement unit, which confuses me, even confused the judge but they are basing it on the fact that I can't stay away from my ex, but when you have a child with that ex and also pregnant again I can't not see him for the babies sake not mine and his. He isn't violent towards me or his daughter, he has an anger but he doesn't ever use pysicall violence, he only shouts abit to much. But to me this is still not a good enough excuse to take a happy, heathly, advance baby girl away from a mum who is out of the relationship they are saying is the problem.
To cut a long story sort, she is on an interim care order and I am due back to court on the 30th. Me and my ex are not allowed to talk to each other under any circumstances over than the pregnancy but it has to go through social but they are making everything inposible, they have lied about both me and ex in court, they have lied to my mum, when a judge wanted to see her they told her that he said she wasn't necessary anymore, they say I was aggressive when police took baby, but police report say I was only crying hysterically. They have said my daughter has been settling into the new foster placement really well but the foster career told me that she isn't. Social basically took **** because I wouldn't sign a safety plan which meant her farther wasn't allowed contact but I didn't do it unless they changed it to him allowed supervised contact by social which they said they would change but never did and took her. They have made up lies saying I'm on drugs, and I abuse alcohol, which is absolute rubbish, because I despise drugs and I haven't drank alcohol since before I got pregnant with my daughter. Saying I have server mental health, no I had postnatal depression which was for like 2 months and now don't have anymore. I don't know what I can do, because even with all the lies somehow social are always right, and I miss my daughter so much and just want her home with me now and I'm worried they will try and take this baby as well.