need advice. let me be a dad
Posted: Sun Feb 05, 2017 4:38 pm
Hi im a 25 year old male, me and my partner are expecting our 1st child. I'll give you the background story first. When I was 13 I was arrested for a sexual crime on a young girl, I'm not on the sex offenders register or have any other sexual crimes on my record, My partner had a very bad start in life which resulted in her turning to drugs, we first met she was injecting and had a bad addiction, in the last two years I have helped and supported here and now been cleen for a year and a half. The social services got involved because of my partner being in care as a child but started digging on me, thay have told my partner my offence and as can be expected was a shock, we sat and spoke and agreed it was so long ago and I was a child we can work thrue it and be a family. The social on the other hand seem to think that im a massive risk and advised her to move out and have no contact with me, because she was in care she is doing everything they say in fear of losing our unborn baby, they have advised her to not put my name on the birth certificate which shouldn't even be discussed and shouldn't effect what happens to the child. Thay have spoke very little to me but loads to my partner trying to get her in mother and baby unit's. I believe they are trying to push me out as im the provider. We have since had difficulty with the pregnancy and I've been told that I can't attend the hospital appointments or the birth. I believe thay want to get me out the way so thay can try to take our child of my partner for her past im seeking legal advice but it takes time. Can anyone help or give any advice ?