Advice On Having A Second Child...
Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2014 5:19 pm
Hello All,
My first son was put into short term foster care after 4/6weeks old. He was in care for just over 1year. Family court proceedings finished, he was then given to my mum and dad on an SGO. This means he is to be in their care until he's 18?
We now see he more regularly because they have been discharged from ss. We don't have to see him in a contact centre anymore which is great. It was the best outcome at court as he could of been adopted out and we would never of seen him again.
Me and hubby were on bail the whole time and only just been given a decision from cps. They decided no further action..we knew we were innocent and our sons injuries were caused during my emergency cesarean.
Anyways cut the LONG story short, hubby and I have decided we cannot live without our son seen as we are innocent, we would like to go on to have another child! We haven't been given anything in writing to say whether we are allowed children together again? It seems a big risk if it's taken as soon as it's born, can this happen? I have watched many of the panorama programmes and they are devastating! If we went on to having the second child would this not prove something and be in the first child's best interest to return home to bond with his sibling?
HELP???
My first son was put into short term foster care after 4/6weeks old. He was in care for just over 1year. Family court proceedings finished, he was then given to my mum and dad on an SGO. This means he is to be in their care until he's 18?
We now see he more regularly because they have been discharged from ss. We don't have to see him in a contact centre anymore which is great. It was the best outcome at court as he could of been adopted out and we would never of seen him again.
Me and hubby were on bail the whole time and only just been given a decision from cps. They decided no further action..we knew we were innocent and our sons injuries were caused during my emergency cesarean.
Anyways cut the LONG story short, hubby and I have decided we cannot live without our son seen as we are innocent, we would like to go on to have another child! We haven't been given anything in writing to say whether we are allowed children together again? It seems a big risk if it's taken as soon as it's born, can this happen? I have watched many of the panorama programmes and they are devastating! If we went on to having the second child would this not prove something and be in the first child's best interest to return home to bond with his sibling?
HELP???