Contact has been stopped
Posted: Sat May 13, 2017 5:55 pm
Hi All
My ex has stopped me having contact with my two girls. They live with him and his new wife (who is not the nicest of people and is a source of some of the problems). There were a supervision order in place which unknown to me only lasted for a year. I have only in the past week seen the order for the first time even though it were issued in 2013. It ended in 2014.
The contact I had with my girls were supervised by family members since the start of the order and we stuck to the contract of expectations (agreed by all involved including my ex). He however has not been following the contract but is blaming me and my family members for this. He sent an email saying contact is to be stopped but gave no clear reason as to why it is stopping but says my family members who supervised contact cannot supervision contact but the can still see the girls if I am not with them. However he gets angry if they get in contact with the girls.
He will not let the girls have indirect contact with me. He and his wife have taken my oldest girl (she is 17) phone away from her as punishment for silly reasons and the wife has stopped my girls ringing me from her phone. She were not around when all this first started but she thinks she can come in and throw her weight about.
I am not sure where to go from here. I am hoping to put in for a child arrangement order but am unsure of the legal side of things. Any advice would be of help.
Thank you.
My ex has stopped me having contact with my two girls. They live with him and his new wife (who is not the nicest of people and is a source of some of the problems). There were a supervision order in place which unknown to me only lasted for a year. I have only in the past week seen the order for the first time even though it were issued in 2013. It ended in 2014.
The contact I had with my girls were supervised by family members since the start of the order and we stuck to the contract of expectations (agreed by all involved including my ex). He however has not been following the contract but is blaming me and my family members for this. He sent an email saying contact is to be stopped but gave no clear reason as to why it is stopping but says my family members who supervised contact cannot supervision contact but the can still see the girls if I am not with them. However he gets angry if they get in contact with the girls.
He will not let the girls have indirect contact with me. He and his wife have taken my oldest girl (she is 17) phone away from her as punishment for silly reasons and the wife has stopped my girls ringing me from her phone. She were not around when all this first started but she thinks she can come in and throw her weight about.
I am not sure where to go from here. I am hoping to put in for a child arrangement order but am unsure of the legal side of things. Any advice would be of help.
Thank you.