Hi really needing advice please

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Hi really needing advice please

Postby saraheve29 » Mon Mar 05, 2018 11:46 pm

Hi Suzie
I need somone to talk to, i failed the parenting assessment dispite technically passing it as they said i have got good enough parenting skills and my home is satisfactory, they said they feel i can not look after a baby, shes one now and a 10 year old at the same time because im autistic. I dont agree with this and feel they are treating me autism as if one shoe fits all. How can i fight against it though. My dad has reluctantly agreed to apply for guardianship so at least he can be in the family, which the parenting assessor agreed will be in my sons best interest but now my dads acting very distant from me. But i feel he is my last hope to at least get my son out of care which my son desperately doesn't want to be in care and doesn't understand it. He has adhd and they feel im unable to care for his complex needs having a baby. So i need my dad to apply my last hope. But my dad is being so distant. Im due to have a hair strand test for cannabis and although i know this will be negitive im thinking whats the point ive already lost. I havnt seen the guardian yet but of course shes going to agree with the assossor.
Im feeling depressed and alone i have no friends and noone to talk to. I feel im loosing hope. Any advice please

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Re: Hi really needing advice please

Postby Suzie, FRG Adviser » Tue Mar 06, 2018 5:56 pm

Dear saraheve29

I have already responded to your post on a different thread.

Best wishes


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