Please help my babies and me. So ultimately wrong that it's actually evil.
Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2017 1:44 am
I don't know how to start writing this. I pray that I can finally get the advice I need. I am 31yrs old. I have 3 children. My eldest son will b 14 in 3 wks, he us adopted a decision that was made for me not by me. And my lil boy is 10 and my lil girl is 9. They are in care . This post is about them. My babies now 4 n a half years ago were taken from me. Thursday 16th May 2013 I took them to school that day and they just didn't come back. Why?
I went to pick them up from school that day. I was asked to come to the reception as that's where my babies were and so was ss. I don't know why. They sed they were going to take them to be stripped and checked for abuse! This was to do with a bruise on my son's head as he had bumped his head at the weekend prior. So on the Monday I logged it in the accident book which is what parents have to do when they take kids to school and they've got any bruise or injury apparently.
No one had said anything to me about anything all week so why is it in the Thursday they decide to take my kids then lie telling me theyre on their way back when I ring them asking where they were as it was getting late. They didn't let me go with them to this place where they checked my kids. Then a sw showed up at my door demanding me to sign a voluntary care act so when I want them back I can but if I don't sign their putting them in pp.
I asked the next day and kept asking for them to return them as legally they had to but they wouldn't. Then in December they got a care order.
My contact went from weekly to every 3 months theyre split up as I said they did this behind my back. They have breached the order as the judge said never move them again and do not take then out the county. This was because my babies had been shifted about over ten times found out
At court. Now it's been over 20 times and they put my son in Essex in a boarding school. They don't invite me to any meetings. And they won't put my children in a placement together. And they won't return them to me they've told my babies when theyre 18 they don't give me any help at all no plans ever been made to work toward them being returned never had a family meeting I have no contact from the ss at all I don't have a clue what us going on with my babies I just found out from my kids that they are seeing my mum and family since when I don't know. My son's had a black eye and is being neglected still.
It took a long time but I finally realise it was the school who did this. They destroyed me because I dare to sue them for my baby girl's accident she had at their pre-school that nearly killed her. Exactly a month before they were taken from school was when my daughter had her accident. So 16/5/13 must of been the day my daughter's solicitor must of contacted them about the me suing them for an accident so bad that they were made to change the entire playground because of it. My daughter had to have her get glued back on and then also have in total 13 stitches front and back of her ear. My poor baby was in so much pain.
My son had got ADHD on the high end if the spectrum. I've just found out from my lil boy at the last contact I had. I was asking him how he was and if he was still on medication. Which the last time I knew he was in 3 pills a day he told me he now on 5 a day!!!!
Wtf what when and why. The school tried excluding my son at 5 and only let him go to school 4 2 hours a day coz they couldn't cope they said they had to teach him with 2 teachers to him.
This I why social services where involved. But they were on child protection have been forever they blamed his behaviour on me but I had been saying since he was 2 that he needed to b tested as I felt he had ADHD his dad has it. I begged for support from school and as but they didn't give me any of the right Help they sent fiss in a couple times which wasn't helpful. At all.
It took a long time but I was finally able to get him diagnosed and even enrolled him in a specialist school for children with special educational needs. But i never got a chance to even try with any of these correct measures. My son's medication and diagnosis appointment was on my birthday 20th May. 4 days after they were taken I went with them to his appointment it was at this appointment I also found out my children had been split up. There's just so much more going on not 1 rule is being followed. My babies should not be split up they both want to come home they always have. The ss ain't ever willing to give them back they don't do anything or offer anything to make that happen theyre just doing what they want and my babies are suffering the law and our rights have been totally ignored please help me help my babies they have been treated like animals traumatised beyond belief and this cannot go on no more no one is helping me. I can't b without my babies anymore. I finally found this parent forum please tell me there's something i can do my babies are full siblings and see each other once every 2 months. It's evil what theyre doing. It's more than killing me
I went to pick them up from school that day. I was asked to come to the reception as that's where my babies were and so was ss. I don't know why. They sed they were going to take them to be stripped and checked for abuse! This was to do with a bruise on my son's head as he had bumped his head at the weekend prior. So on the Monday I logged it in the accident book which is what parents have to do when they take kids to school and they've got any bruise or injury apparently.
No one had said anything to me about anything all week so why is it in the Thursday they decide to take my kids then lie telling me theyre on their way back when I ring them asking where they were as it was getting late. They didn't let me go with them to this place where they checked my kids. Then a sw showed up at my door demanding me to sign a voluntary care act so when I want them back I can but if I don't sign their putting them in pp.
I asked the next day and kept asking for them to return them as legally they had to but they wouldn't. Then in December they got a care order.
My contact went from weekly to every 3 months theyre split up as I said they did this behind my back. They have breached the order as the judge said never move them again and do not take then out the county. This was because my babies had been shifted about over ten times found out
At court. Now it's been over 20 times and they put my son in Essex in a boarding school. They don't invite me to any meetings. And they won't put my children in a placement together. And they won't return them to me they've told my babies when theyre 18 they don't give me any help at all no plans ever been made to work toward them being returned never had a family meeting I have no contact from the ss at all I don't have a clue what us going on with my babies I just found out from my kids that they are seeing my mum and family since when I don't know. My son's had a black eye and is being neglected still.
It took a long time but I finally realise it was the school who did this. They destroyed me because I dare to sue them for my baby girl's accident she had at their pre-school that nearly killed her. Exactly a month before they were taken from school was when my daughter had her accident. So 16/5/13 must of been the day my daughter's solicitor must of contacted them about the me suing them for an accident so bad that they were made to change the entire playground because of it. My daughter had to have her get glued back on and then also have in total 13 stitches front and back of her ear. My poor baby was in so much pain.
My son had got ADHD on the high end if the spectrum. I've just found out from my lil boy at the last contact I had. I was asking him how he was and if he was still on medication. Which the last time I knew he was in 3 pills a day he told me he now on 5 a day!!!!
Wtf what when and why. The school tried excluding my son at 5 and only let him go to school 4 2 hours a day coz they couldn't cope they said they had to teach him with 2 teachers to him.
This I why social services where involved. But they were on child protection have been forever they blamed his behaviour on me but I had been saying since he was 2 that he needed to b tested as I felt he had ADHD his dad has it. I begged for support from school and as but they didn't give me any of the right Help they sent fiss in a couple times which wasn't helpful. At all.
It took a long time but I was finally able to get him diagnosed and even enrolled him in a specialist school for children with special educational needs. But i never got a chance to even try with any of these correct measures. My son's medication and diagnosis appointment was on my birthday 20th May. 4 days after they were taken I went with them to his appointment it was at this appointment I also found out my children had been split up. There's just so much more going on not 1 rule is being followed. My babies should not be split up they both want to come home they always have. The ss ain't ever willing to give them back they don't do anything or offer anything to make that happen theyre just doing what they want and my babies are suffering the law and our rights have been totally ignored please help me help my babies they have been treated like animals traumatised beyond belief and this cannot go on no more no one is helping me. I can't b without my babies anymore. I finally found this parent forum please tell me there's something i can do my babies are full siblings and see each other once every 2 months. It's evil what theyre doing. It's more than killing me