Made out to be a monster
Posted: Tue Jan 31, 2017 3:50 pm
Hi
June 2016 my son went into school and said i beat him i strangled him and bite him
The hospital checked him over said it was mishandling by this point it was going down hill id told them the night before had been one of his mega melt downs he threw him self upstairs he bited me and hit me and screamed at me but the hospital sided with social services.
Then the social worker got me to sign a voluntary sign over form (the police were there felt i had no choice) after that the police took me and then formally charged me with ABH i spent 3 hours in a police cell and bailed till august 25th
Then day later social worker came round said her manager recommended 4 weeks in foster care. PLO meeting on 4th july said 5 weeks recommended. Then august 14th after interview with my stepdad who witnessed what my son did to me and knew i didnt do what my son said police sent letter with NFA big relief asked if i could have my son back but for 4 months same old excuse oh will dicuss next time till ss decided it was time to take it to court but in the time my son was in foster care to court he was in his 2nd placement and then court came after that my son was put in 3rd placement hes still there now.
But now basically judge has said hand him over i will commend you so much for it but the only upside is the judge hasnt said is he will not return so im holding on to that
But ive been made out to be a monster but im not i pushed 4 years to get my son diagnosed and this month he was with autism and ADHD i know i could have done so much better but im no saint never will be but ss say ive done this n that all on people seeing things supposedly but never no photo or cctv evidence just the words of parents and school staff and hospital notice the pattern all professionals i live in a big street everyone knows whats what they have never would report me to ss
Im hoping doing all what judge asks me to do gets me my son home cause ive said im not willing to hand him over if no comphremises arnt made but if childrens guardian and ss are against me what do i do? The judge has said they must write a support plan of what they will do if my son comes home.
I just need advice what can i do to make the judge see what i want is whats best for my son and to have him home at the end of it would be a blessing ive applied to more courses and triple ppp stepping stones
Any advice will be appriciated
Ps im a single mum who wants and will do all for her child no matter what
June 2016 my son went into school and said i beat him i strangled him and bite him
The hospital checked him over said it was mishandling by this point it was going down hill id told them the night before had been one of his mega melt downs he threw him self upstairs he bited me and hit me and screamed at me but the hospital sided with social services.
Then the social worker got me to sign a voluntary sign over form (the police were there felt i had no choice) after that the police took me and then formally charged me with ABH i spent 3 hours in a police cell and bailed till august 25th
Then day later social worker came round said her manager recommended 4 weeks in foster care. PLO meeting on 4th july said 5 weeks recommended. Then august 14th after interview with my stepdad who witnessed what my son did to me and knew i didnt do what my son said police sent letter with NFA big relief asked if i could have my son back but for 4 months same old excuse oh will dicuss next time till ss decided it was time to take it to court but in the time my son was in foster care to court he was in his 2nd placement and then court came after that my son was put in 3rd placement hes still there now.
But now basically judge has said hand him over i will commend you so much for it but the only upside is the judge hasnt said is he will not return so im holding on to that
But ive been made out to be a monster but im not i pushed 4 years to get my son diagnosed and this month he was with autism and ADHD i know i could have done so much better but im no saint never will be but ss say ive done this n that all on people seeing things supposedly but never no photo or cctv evidence just the words of parents and school staff and hospital notice the pattern all professionals i live in a big street everyone knows whats what they have never would report me to ss
Im hoping doing all what judge asks me to do gets me my son home cause ive said im not willing to hand him over if no comphremises arnt made but if childrens guardian and ss are against me what do i do? The judge has said they must write a support plan of what they will do if my son comes home.
I just need advice what can i do to make the judge see what i want is whats best for my son and to have him home at the end of it would be a blessing ive applied to more courses and triple ppp stepping stones
Any advice will be appriciated
Ps im a single mum who wants and will do all for her child no matter what