what protecting your children involve?

mva17
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what protecting your children involve?

Postby mva17 » Wed Aug 08, 2018 2:53 pm

hi. i am a bit worried after my husband been charged of possesing dowladed imagenes of child pornography from the internt. i know he is not allow to.unsupervised contact. but my question is what the sw expect me to do? how i can make sure my children are ok? i know they are and they love their dad. but not sure what i need to do to prove they are safe.

PerfectlySafeDad
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Re: what protecting your children involve?

Postby PerfectlySafeDad » Thu Aug 09, 2018 2:44 am

Not much you can do. Do exactly as they ask (ie don't allow unsupervised contact). Await the sentencing at court. He has to he remorseful, you have to tell everyone you are horrified and cautious for your own children, and then he has to engage with whatever sentence he is given (hopefully only probationary work). Get himself reduced to 'low risk' and hopefully off the sex offender's register in 5 years (if it's only a community order he gets, otherwise it's at least 7 on the register).
Then and only then you can both fight back, basically tell them to sod off if they still harass you even after sentence is successfully served.

mva17
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Re: what protecting your children involve?

Postby mva17 » Thu Aug 09, 2018 4:44 pm

thanks. do i will be allow to see him? who decide how the contact between the kids and him is done and how often?

Kami2018
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Re: what protecting your children involve?

Postby Kami2018 » Wed Aug 15, 2018 10:51 pm

Children's services will expect you not to let your husband have any in supervised contact and safeguard them at al, times they will be assessing this

mva17
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Re: what protecting your children involve?

Postby mva17 » Thu Aug 16, 2018 7:33 am

he is not alone with them, and dosent contact them on the phone. i make sure the kids knows the pants rules and we have talked about good touch bad touch, and internet safety. Apart from that not sure what to do more.

Kami2018
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Re: what protecting your children involve?

Postby Kami2018 » Fri Aug 17, 2018 4:40 pm

Just to be sure to comply on al, the advise n rules children's services set out because if u don't that will raise concerns and honesty and communication is exactly what they want and if u have a good relationship with them they will support you


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