Cpo order / court proceedings before baby is born/ domestic abuses
Posted: Thu May 10, 2018 5:37 pm
Hi not sure what to expect me an my partner of 7 years have had a previous child remove from are care who is under a sgo which has been since 2014 now which the foster carer is currently trying to adopt her we have solicter involved for that matter currently waiting a court date since my child being with the foster carer for 5 years now under sgo we both have seen her 6 years so obusally there isn't much of a bond there.
I am now currently 8 months pregnant with the same partner I myself made la aware of my pregnancy at 3 months of my pregnancy and asked them what was likely to happen as we have had a previous child removed they put us on a child in need plan assessed us and said it would move to a child protection conference because of the la concerns of our previous child being removed an we failed to protect her my partner went to prison also in 2014 and came out 2016 for a fire arms charge he is currently on licence an has to go to probation now were we are at now is that it has moved to my unborn baby being on a child protection plan under neglect and we have meetings every month then when we had our first cp meeting the police brang up that the police had been called two my house twice for me and my partner arguing a neighbour called both times they came saw I was fine so left then la gave me and my partner as final notice letter of things we must do to stop them removing our child we got solicter involved they said they want us to have a physcitrist docter see us to see if we both have any mental health problems and a risk assessment to see if our baby can live with us basicly our matter will be going to court at any time I go in to labour then the court will decied what happens currently I am going to dv groups cause la want me to be aware of what da is we also have to go to parenting groups but that hasent happend yet and a family conference but they still have not put that in place they have not spoke to any of our other family to see we do have support before the baby is born I will note th3y took till I was 7 months pregnant to land all this on us they won't me to go in to a mother and baby unit when I give birth but the court will deciede what happens we still have solicter involved until it goes to court I have fully cooperated with them the whole way in regards to my partner they say our relationship is minimised to them and there very concerned about da in our relationship because of neighbours calling police this call outs have happend since I hav3 been pregnant partly because of all the stress we are both under we both currently live together Idearly I would like us to be a family and be together but I don't no if la trust this as there concerns of da is our relationship what I do not want to happen it gets to me given birth an they turn round and say I haven't separated from.my partner an how would.i keep my baby safe an all that I mean will they at least tell me to make a choice or see if I'm going to leave him and if I don't say u can't keep the baby they haven't told.me to leave him an there currently assessing us as a couple but they seemed to be very concerned what do I expect from all of this?
I am now currently 8 months pregnant with the same partner I myself made la aware of my pregnancy at 3 months of my pregnancy and asked them what was likely to happen as we have had a previous child removed they put us on a child in need plan assessed us and said it would move to a child protection conference because of the la concerns of our previous child being removed an we failed to protect her my partner went to prison also in 2014 and came out 2016 for a fire arms charge he is currently on licence an has to go to probation now were we are at now is that it has moved to my unborn baby being on a child protection plan under neglect and we have meetings every month then when we had our first cp meeting the police brang up that the police had been called two my house twice for me and my partner arguing a neighbour called both times they came saw I was fine so left then la gave me and my partner as final notice letter of things we must do to stop them removing our child we got solicter involved they said they want us to have a physcitrist docter see us to see if we both have any mental health problems and a risk assessment to see if our baby can live with us basicly our matter will be going to court at any time I go in to labour then the court will decied what happens currently I am going to dv groups cause la want me to be aware of what da is we also have to go to parenting groups but that hasent happend yet and a family conference but they still have not put that in place they have not spoke to any of our other family to see we do have support before the baby is born I will note th3y took till I was 7 months pregnant to land all this on us they won't me to go in to a mother and baby unit when I give birth but the court will deciede what happens we still have solicter involved until it goes to court I have fully cooperated with them the whole way in regards to my partner they say our relationship is minimised to them and there very concerned about da in our relationship because of neighbours calling police this call outs have happend since I hav3 been pregnant partly because of all the stress we are both under we both currently live together Idearly I would like us to be a family and be together but I don't no if la trust this as there concerns of da is our relationship what I do not want to happen it gets to me given birth an they turn round and say I haven't separated from.my partner an how would.i keep my baby safe an all that I mean will they at least tell me to make a choice or see if I'm going to leave him and if I don't say u can't keep the baby they haven't told.me to leave him an there currently assessing us as a couple but they seemed to be very concerned what do I expect from all of this?