Pre birth assessment
Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2017 3:33 pm
Hi everyone.
I am just looking for some advice on what to expect as I'm worried out my mind.
I am 32 weeks pregnant. I have a social worker coming to visit me tomorrow,my health advisor has informed me that this is about my ex partner (babies dad) and something to do with his behaviour but she can't be specific as she didn't make the referral to them but she knows of it as they have spoken to her.
Now,I ended my relationship with babies dad pretty much as soon as I found out I was pregnant,due to his personality and the way he would talk to me. I was only with him for about 3 weeks when I fell pregnant so I don't know a lot about his past.
I told him to start with that I don't want to be with him but once the baby is born that he can see her with that being only at my house as I don't trust him. This resulted in him being very nasty to me over text everyday as I was 'keeping him from his child' so I ended up just saying what he wanted to hear just to stop him being so nasty to me.
This all changed when I realised the way he was speaking and acting towards me I didn't want that for my child so I told him he needs to sort himself out before he has anything and I blocked him and changed my number.
He now talks through my mum.
Anyway,now I have this letter from the SS and they're visiting because of him and his past behaviour.
As I don't know alot about his past I just want to know what to expect.
Can I get in trouble for saying he can see her If they end up telling me he is a threat but I didn't know?
And will the fact that I've cut of all contact to protect my child work in my favour?
Sorry this is so long and thank you
I am just looking for some advice on what to expect as I'm worried out my mind.
I am 32 weeks pregnant. I have a social worker coming to visit me tomorrow,my health advisor has informed me that this is about my ex partner (babies dad) and something to do with his behaviour but she can't be specific as she didn't make the referral to them but she knows of it as they have spoken to her.
Now,I ended my relationship with babies dad pretty much as soon as I found out I was pregnant,due to his personality and the way he would talk to me. I was only with him for about 3 weeks when I fell pregnant so I don't know a lot about his past.
I told him to start with that I don't want to be with him but once the baby is born that he can see her with that being only at my house as I don't trust him. This resulted in him being very nasty to me over text everyday as I was 'keeping him from his child' so I ended up just saying what he wanted to hear just to stop him being so nasty to me.
This all changed when I realised the way he was speaking and acting towards me I didn't want that for my child so I told him he needs to sort himself out before he has anything and I blocked him and changed my number.
He now talks through my mum.
Anyway,now I have this letter from the SS and they're visiting because of him and his past behaviour.
As I don't know alot about his past I just want to know what to expect.
Can I get in trouble for saying he can see her If they end up telling me he is a threat but I didn't know?
And will the fact that I've cut of all contact to protect my child work in my favour?
Sorry this is so long and thank you