What would be involved....bf on SOF
Posted: Wed Sep 13, 2017 9:34 pm
Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years.
It was 18 months ago when the police came to the house to confiscate all electronics....he was charged last year for IIOC category C 21 images in total, has completed his community service & now only sees his PO once a month. He is now on the SOF for 7 years and 6 remaining. He stated to me that yes he did go on adult sites but never intentionally to look at inappropriate images of that kind and doesn't know how & why they would have been on the computer and I believe him. he is naive and scared at the time and we wasn't fully told the procedure at court and stupidly pleaded guilty. My concerns are now if we were to have a baby which we have spoke about for years as a normal couple does but now he has this stigma attached to his name and I do fully support him I'm just stuck, confused, upset don't know where to get advice from, what would the best or worse outcome be? Please help, thanks
It was 18 months ago when the police came to the house to confiscate all electronics....he was charged last year for IIOC category C 21 images in total, has completed his community service & now only sees his PO once a month. He is now on the SOF for 7 years and 6 remaining. He stated to me that yes he did go on adult sites but never intentionally to look at inappropriate images of that kind and doesn't know how & why they would have been on the computer and I believe him. he is naive and scared at the time and we wasn't fully told the procedure at court and stupidly pleaded guilty. My concerns are now if we were to have a baby which we have spoke about for years as a normal couple does but now he has this stigma attached to his name and I do fully support him I'm just stuck, confused, upset don't know where to get advice from, what would the best or worse outcome be? Please help, thanks