husband arrested
Posted: Tue Jul 04, 2017 8:35 pm
Hi,
My husband, who I'm separating from but still lives with me, was arrested for inciting a child to engage in sexual activity and paying for it recently. The allegation is that it was all online and the investigation is ongoing.
Due to recent legislation changes, he's not on bail but 'under investigation'. This means that there are no conditions or anything to stop him living in the family home.
Our kids were already on a CP plan, but were due to be stepped down at the next review. All CSD have done is made us both sign a safety plan saying he's not to have unsupervised contact and that I have to ensure this. This is impossible and exhausting trying to keep track of everyone's location constantly.
I've asked him to move out, my mums asked him as well and asked his parents to try to get him to move out. He's agreeing to go away for a few nights here and there, but not actually find somewhere else to live.
The house has a joint mortgage so think my options are limited.
Is there anyway I can get it so he has to move out? Even if only whilst this investigation is ongoing? Or any type of court order I could apply for which would mean he wouldn't be able to stay in the family home?
I really don't want to have to move the kids if at all possible, but can't keep living like this.
My husband, who I'm separating from but still lives with me, was arrested for inciting a child to engage in sexual activity and paying for it recently. The allegation is that it was all online and the investigation is ongoing.
Due to recent legislation changes, he's not on bail but 'under investigation'. This means that there are no conditions or anything to stop him living in the family home.
Our kids were already on a CP plan, but were due to be stepped down at the next review. All CSD have done is made us both sign a safety plan saying he's not to have unsupervised contact and that I have to ensure this. This is impossible and exhausting trying to keep track of everyone's location constantly.
I've asked him to move out, my mums asked him as well and asked his parents to try to get him to move out. He's agreeing to go away for a few nights here and there, but not actually find somewhere else to live.
The house has a joint mortgage so think my options are limited.
Is there anyway I can get it so he has to move out? Even if only whilst this investigation is ongoing? Or any type of court order I could apply for which would mean he wouldn't be able to stay in the family home?
I really don't want to have to move the kids if at all possible, but can't keep living like this.