I'm a sex offender dad and I want my family back
Posted: Tue May 02, 2017 11:17 am
Hi everyone the subject may raise a lot of eyebrows but please read before making a judgement...
2 years ago I found to have been looking at indecent images I knew what I was doing was wrong I hated myself for it I was very lonely depressed and generally just in a bad place in June 2015 my daughter was born and a week later the police exercised a warrant to search my property and take goods as they see fit then we had a social worker turn up an hour after I returned from my interview...
In the November after being on children in need for this period WWE we're then placed on child protection to this date... I have attended the lucie faithful foundation course to address my behaviour off my own back and out of my own pocket I was sentenced to 3year community order and 5 years on the register I am attending all probation meetings and my risk assessment officer has no concerns..... we have now been on child protection for 2 years in this time I have constantly asked sw on any recommendations they have for us to improve the level of trust but to no avail we are now about to go to our 5th conference where there has been no change in the situation we were asked what me and my partner wanted moving forward into the future and we were open and honest and said we wanted to be a family and live together sw says she has given us credit on our honesty but is unsure whether or both this is realistic sw has also admitted that as time has passed we are now stuck in a rut and she is unsure on how to move forward and so has passed the case to the principle for further advice all I want to know is if there is a possibility of us living together again?? Me and partner don't expect it to happen overnight and are willing to work with ss but we are just getting no answers please could you advise me further as my daughter is nearly 2 and me and partner are living separately with parents and it sucks I currently have 3hours on a week night and 8hours Saturday and Sunday contact and I also work 12hour days through the weekend so there would not be a significant increase in contact and before you say it I know I'm judged as a risk and always will be
2 years ago I found to have been looking at indecent images I knew what I was doing was wrong I hated myself for it I was very lonely depressed and generally just in a bad place in June 2015 my daughter was born and a week later the police exercised a warrant to search my property and take goods as they see fit then we had a social worker turn up an hour after I returned from my interview...
In the November after being on children in need for this period WWE we're then placed on child protection to this date... I have attended the lucie faithful foundation course to address my behaviour off my own back and out of my own pocket I was sentenced to 3year community order and 5 years on the register I am attending all probation meetings and my risk assessment officer has no concerns..... we have now been on child protection for 2 years in this time I have constantly asked sw on any recommendations they have for us to improve the level of trust but to no avail we are now about to go to our 5th conference where there has been no change in the situation we were asked what me and my partner wanted moving forward into the future and we were open and honest and said we wanted to be a family and live together sw says she has given us credit on our honesty but is unsure whether or both this is realistic sw has also admitted that as time has passed we are now stuck in a rut and she is unsure on how to move forward and so has passed the case to the principle for further advice all I want to know is if there is a possibility of us living together again?? Me and partner don't expect it to happen overnight and are willing to work with ss but we are just getting no answers please could you advise me further as my daughter is nearly 2 and me and partner are living separately with parents and it sucks I currently have 3hours on a week night and 8hours Saturday and Sunday contact and I also work 12hour days through the weekend so there would not be a significant increase in contact and before you say it I know I'm judged as a risk and always will be