feel let down

frustrated mum
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feel let down

Postby frustrated mum » Sun Apr 12, 2015 10:37 am

Basically my 17 year old daughter , in long term foster care, has between ss and the police given the green light to do what she wants . Recent history is boxing day got arrested with her girl friend assault by beating x2 assualting police x2 and criminal damage. she gets put on bail . She then keeps running away breaking her bail to be with her girlfriend. Bail isnt worth the piece of paper its written on. we made it to court and she got lucky she got a 3 month tag and 12 yot. As she kept leaving ss and police said we will let you go as long as you inform someone. Now I have found out her girlfriend who is older is possibly dealing drugs and has been investigated for sexual explotation. I have a meeting on monday with ss and police. I feel that they letting her go off and do these things are failing in their duty of care. She was removed from me for less behaviour. Can they impose some kind of court order? Can she be classed as a vunerable child/adult? I just dont get it.

frustrated mum
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Re: feel let down

Postby frustrated mum » Sun Apr 12, 2015 10:57 am

Can she be put back on child protection while in care?

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Suzie, FRG Adviser
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Re: feel let down

Postby Suzie, FRG Adviser » Wed Apr 15, 2015 11:50 am

Dear frustrated mum

Firstly, I am sorry that you feel so worried and frustrated by your daughter’s situation.

As you say your daughter is in long term foster care, I assume there is a care order to the local authority. As a looked after child Children Services have specific duties to children in the care system. I have included our advice sheet relating to these duties here for your information.

The difficulty you have is your daughter’s age as she is 17 and a care order is likely to end when she is 18. However, having said this, as a child leaving care Children Services have additional duties in respect of the support they provide for a child leaving care. Your daughter should have a personal adviser and a Pathway Plan should be prepared for her including the support she will receive to help her make the transition from care to independent living. A copy of our advice sheet about support for care leavers is here for your information.

Additionally, social workers involved with your daughter have to take account of her wishes and feelings in making plans for her. This may mean that your views will not be over and above hers although you are her parent. Once a child is 16 is he or she decide to remain in care there is little that you can do to prevent it even if there is no care order.

In relation to the bail conditions which you say you daughter breaches, it will be for the police to ensure that these are enforced and she could find herself in custody for persistent breaches of her conditions.

Your daughter is already in the care of the local authority so she will not be made subject to child protection investigations. You could speak your daughter’s social worker or the Independent Reviewing Officer about your concerns and whether she could be placed in secure accommodation for her own safety.

If there is a care order to the local authority then, they will be able to exercise their parental responsibility for your daughter over and above yours. Is there any likelihood that your daughter may want to return home to you? Do you have regular contact with her?

As far as Children Services are concerned, if you feel the decisions they are making for your daughter are wrong it is open for you to make a complaint. Our advice sheet about challenging decisions and making a complaint is here for your information.

I hope you will find this information helpful but if you wish to speak to an Adviser, please feel free to telephone our advice line on 0808 801 0366. The advice line is open Monday to Friday from 9.30 a.m. to 3.00 p.m.

Best wishes,

Suzie


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