Children starting to become unruly
Posted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 10:54 pm
Hi All.
I am looking for some help and advice with regards to our children, as at this point in time I have no idea what I can do.
I was unsure of where best to post this, or the best title for it.
For anyone that has not been following my main post, I have been excluded from the family home by the police and children's services since end of November 2013. and our 5 children are still at the family home in the care of my wonderful wife. Ages from 4 to 14.
We are now 10 Months down the line, and it has been and is still continuing to be a very difficult time for all of the family.
As said before my wife is alone looking after 5 children, and I think she is doing the best she possibly can do under the current situation.
My wife and I have been married for 11 years, So I can instinctively tell when something is not right without needing to be told.
But it has been brought to my attention by friends of the family, and indirectly by my wife that in the last few month some of the children are starting to show signs of being unruly.
I only have supervised contact with all the children once a week it's hard for me to pick up on details, but saying that over the last month I have even noticed an attitude change in the two eldest children.
Also in the last week the two eldest children have been excluded from school.
I do not really know in depth what is going on with the children at this point in time, But what I have been told is that the eldest children are being, disobedient, rude, disrespectful, and are swearing a lot.
As said above as I have only been told this, and not heard or witnesses this 1st hand, I can not confirm and or deny what I have been told.
I know that there is not a great deal I can do myself and I am excluded from the family home, But I still want to do whatever I can do to support my wife and children.
My wife is a member here so I am hoping that she will see this post and any of the help and advice given. I will also let her know that I have make this post.
I am not expecting my wife to reply to this post, but only time will tell if she feels able to.
Thanks for your time.
Best Regards.
I am looking for some help and advice with regards to our children, as at this point in time I have no idea what I can do.
I was unsure of where best to post this, or the best title for it.
For anyone that has not been following my main post, I have been excluded from the family home by the police and children's services since end of November 2013. and our 5 children are still at the family home in the care of my wonderful wife. Ages from 4 to 14.
We are now 10 Months down the line, and it has been and is still continuing to be a very difficult time for all of the family.
As said before my wife is alone looking after 5 children, and I think she is doing the best she possibly can do under the current situation.
My wife and I have been married for 11 years, So I can instinctively tell when something is not right without needing to be told.
But it has been brought to my attention by friends of the family, and indirectly by my wife that in the last few month some of the children are starting to show signs of being unruly.
I only have supervised contact with all the children once a week it's hard for me to pick up on details, but saying that over the last month I have even noticed an attitude change in the two eldest children.
Also in the last week the two eldest children have been excluded from school.
I do not really know in depth what is going on with the children at this point in time, But what I have been told is that the eldest children are being, disobedient, rude, disrespectful, and are swearing a lot.
As said above as I have only been told this, and not heard or witnesses this 1st hand, I can not confirm and or deny what I have been told.
I know that there is not a great deal I can do myself and I am excluded from the family home, But I still want to do whatever I can do to support my wife and children.
My wife is a member here so I am hoping that she will see this post and any of the help and advice given. I will also let her know that I have make this post.
I am not expecting my wife to reply to this post, but only time will tell if she feels able to.
Thanks for your time.
Best Regards.