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by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Feb 17, 2019 2:49 am
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: child sex abuse images on computer
Replies: 6
Views: 6816

Re: child sex abuse images on computer

The common denominator is management isn't it. Utter *short word for part of female anatomy*s. 'Senior social worker' indeed. So that means they think they know better than the worker on the ground? From their plump little office, they can cast a quick decision amidst the other 2,000 cases they have...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Feb 17, 2019 2:10 am
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Information on how to take social services to court
Replies: 3
Views: 6702

Re: Information on how to take social by services to court

'Unique' case. LOL, yeah, in other words they haven't got a ****ing clue. So they just try to shut down all your human rights instead. How unique can it be?? Viewing Iioc? It's one of the most widespread phenomena of modern times, 20+ years old now, and yet they still haven't worked out how unrelate...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Feb 17, 2019 1:38 am
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Social Services: Compulsive Liars.
Replies: 24
Views: 82017

Re: Social Services: Compulsive Liars.

I'm not even going to try and comment on the details of this lot, it speaks for itself. I hereby raise up the post. These are self-evidently caring and articulate parents - not one, but a host of cases - and frankly I believe their word on their concerns I read here over that of the Local Authority ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sat Feb 16, 2019 9:38 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social Services concerned even though SOPO and SOR expired.
Replies: 8
Views: 12545

Re: Social Services concerned even though SOPO and SOR expired.

I too will be putting in a freedom of information request! I had no idea we could do this - which I will point out when I put the request in! They tell you what they want, think they can do what they want, and withhold what they want. After all this time (2 years, 3 if you count the pre-charge perio...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:54 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Not guilty of sex offences but deemed a risk
Replies: 1
Views: 6672

Re: Not guilty of sex offences but deemed a risk

What a diabolical shambles. Goalpost-shifting, back-covering and complete lack of competent insight. Utter inhumanness, stemming from the moral panic of Sarah's Law. Appalling that it would drag up a past crime that was long-since paid for, yet you weren't even convicted! What the hell is this insan...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Feb 15, 2019 12:11 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social Services concerned even though SOPO and SOR expired.
Replies: 8
Views: 12545

Re: Social Services concerned even though SOPO and SOR expired.

'sign an agreement that she'll not allow me to have unsupervised contact with her son until he is 18 (more restrictive than my SOPO was)'
Just who the hell these people think they are! Unbelievable.
by PerfectlySafeDad
Thu Feb 14, 2019 1:07 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Social Services concerned even though SOPO and SOR expired.
Replies: 8
Views: 12545

Re: Social Services concerned even though SOPO and SOR expired.

Dear Just a guy, Thank you for sharing the outcome of the assessment with the parents’ forum. I think it will help a lot of parents who are in similar circumstances. That is good news for your family. Best wishes, Suzie Yep, well thank goodness for that, nevertheless what an appallingly draconian e...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Feb 13, 2019 8:17 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Can social workers just enter and search your home
Replies: 10
Views: 73521

Re: Can social workers just enter and search your home

Thanks, that means a lot to me too. I try not to paint them all black, and I try to trust they will be reasonable and make the right decisions, but I've just seen no evidence of that yet. Once they decide there's 'risk' and they open a case on you, they pick on anything and everything they can, they...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Feb 12, 2019 7:16 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Can social workers just enter and search your home
Replies: 10
Views: 73521

Re: Can social workers just enter and search your home

Don't worry, go on about it as much as you like, I know only too well when we're victims of social services' involvement it's a desperate experience. At the very least we need to vent. Just to remind you, though, I'm not the expert, definitely not on 'family law' - who is, really? Seems to me it's a...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Tue Feb 12, 2019 3:15 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Can you trust Childrens Services
Replies: 22
Views: 31939

Re: Can you trust Childrens Services

'CS are barbaric and should not be let within a million miles of any child.' Hi, Thank you for your replies. I have had a 10yr fight with CS, caught them out on everything, I have even recorded an interview they had with my son when a CSA stated that my son had said I threw him downstairs. My son on...