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by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun May 26, 2019 4:05 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Husband arrested for talking to a minor
Replies: 2
Views: 3860

Re: Husband arrested for talking to a minor

I presume he must have some prior conviction/bail conditions or else, as far as I've heard, it is not yet a crime in this country to merely 'talk to minor' (but the way we are going, it will be).
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sat Apr 06, 2019 12:09 am
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: relationship on the SOR
Replies: 2
Views: 3513

relationship on the SOR

Some good news from me: I'm 2 and a quarter years through a 3-year community sentence for possession of indecent images. I was divorced at the beginning of this (for obvious reasons), and at 49 after 22 years of marriage I thought how the hell will I ever find love again, especially given the stigma...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Fri Apr 05, 2019 6:34 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Child Protection order
Replies: 9
Views: 9718

Re: Child Protection order

RS32, your case is absolutely appalling and a violation of human rights in so many ways. Firstly, there's the shocking possibility your partner has been intimidated into an outright false confession by the sheer menacing weight of the Great Witch Hunt. Then is the unprovable 'risk' your partner pose...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Mon Apr 01, 2019 4:41 pm
Forum: General/Archive
Topic: My husband downloaded indecent images
Replies: 51
Views: 65946

Re: My husband downloaded indecent images

You can put it as nicely and professionally as you want, but she's got her children back home basically because she's agreed to being bullied by them as to what relationships she can choose, and the risk she's 'worked to reduce' is an 'alleged risk' - it's in the eyes of the SS. Let's get that strai...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Mar 24, 2019 4:16 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: I want to marry a sex offender
Replies: 11
Views: 27831

Re: I want to marry a sex offender

Dear Shaftesbury, I do not agree with PerfectlySafeDad's view that coming off the sex offenders register will make your partner automatically safe to be with your children. However, due to the support your partner may have received over the years and no further abuse incidents, he may be much less ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Mar 24, 2019 1:46 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: What to do with a boyfriend with a conviction and children's services are getting involved? NEED ADVICE ASAP
Replies: 1
Views: 2473

Re: What to do with a boyfriend with a conviction and children's services are getting involved? NEED ADVICE ASAP

The SS ruining people's lives again, just to cover their backs against any 'maybe' or false accusation whatsoever. Their arrogance beggars belief. The only criminals in this case appears to be them. How in hell are they not accountable?
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Feb 27, 2019 9:14 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Is this fair?
Replies: 2
Views: 3140

Re: Is this fair?

If you're being assessed for one particular reason, they'll assess you on 'everything' else too for good measure, to tick their boxes. It's a catastrophe for any parent to come to the attention of social services for any reason at all, because they seem to think they have both the duty and the right...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Wed Feb 27, 2019 9:07 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Help
Replies: 2
Views: 2817

Re: Help

'a third child was so upset crying for them to give her Daddy back'. My heart bleeds for you, your husband and the children being abused by the state's tyrannical (yet incompetent) safeguarding system. Yes, the world has gone mad. I don't know what advice to offer, because doing exactly as they say ...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Feb 17, 2019 5:26 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Harassment
Replies: 6
Views: 9550

Re: Harassment

Offsted is a worthwhile avenue to try. In the case of my own Children's Services, I know they have failed their Offsted twice in recent years, and some magnificent all-powerful super-director was brought in (no doubt on a huge salary) to oversee two local authorities simultaneously! Amazing woman. O...
by PerfectlySafeDad
Sun Feb 17, 2019 4:24 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: SHPO/SOPO
Replies: 4
Views: 4911

Re: SHPO/SOPO

@May Have you had any further news on the SHPO front? If your husband's risk is coming down, I find it highly unlikely the police would apply for one now, especially since the judge did not see fit to apply one in the first place. This would not be an 'oversight' - they simply don't make obvious err...