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by QuestionMark
Fri Sep 13, 2019 9:07 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Issue with dishonesty
Replies: 2
Views: 948

Re: Issue with dishonesty

Could someone please help?
by QuestionMark
Sun Sep 08, 2019 10:56 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Safeguarding courses
Replies: 2
Views: 1179

Re: Safeguarding courses

Have a look at the NSPCC as they have online courses that cost about £20 - good luck!
by QuestionMark
Sun Sep 08, 2019 10:54 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Can I have a child with my partner
Replies: 2
Views: 846

Re: Can I have a child with my partner

Why did the police not charge either parent, if you don’t mind me asking? What was stated at the child’s inquest? What did the post-mortum find? If it was found that the child passed due to natural causes then this should be raised as this is significant. Where there other reasons that children’s se...
by QuestionMark
Sat Sep 07, 2019 7:47 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Issue with dishonesty
Replies: 2
Views: 948

Issue with dishonesty

One of the findings is that I made ‘false/misleading statements’ immediately after my sons death - I didn’t feel up to telling them about the domestic abuse, considering my son had just died I thought they’d understand this. I did tell them about the DA after I left the relationship and felt safe, b...
by QuestionMark
Sat Sep 07, 2019 6:35 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Disregarding a SGO.
Replies: 2
Views: 898

Re: Disregarding a SGO.

Hi, So sorry to hear what you’ve been through but so so happy for you that you’ve turned your life around and congratulations on the new baby! I find stories like yours so inspirational and I can only hope my life will progress in the same way yours has. I think before going to court privately they ...
by QuestionMark
Wed Sep 04, 2019 11:14 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: How to revoke an SGO
Replies: 14
Views: 5439

Re: How to revoke an SGO

Hello Suzie,

Having read back through your first responses, I can see that “even if there is a court order in place”, if the SGO holders believe I’ve made and sustained the significant changes required, then they are within their rights to make whatever changes they see fit to contact?
by QuestionMark
Wed Sep 04, 2019 7:54 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: How to revoke an SGO
Replies: 14
Views: 5439

Re: How to revoke an SGO

Hello, There’s no child arrangement order made. It seems to me that the judge set the 3 hours a week as a minimum, as he acknowledged that it’ll probably increase. He did the same with my daughter; a court order states that her paternal grandmother is meant to be supervised, but she is now not super...
by QuestionMark
Wed Sep 04, 2019 7:44 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Acceptance/ Trying to understand myself and my situation.
Replies: 2
Views: 1052

Re: Acceptance/ Trying to understand myself and my situation.

Hello, I took your advice and tried to speak to my solicitor, who told me my case is now closed so I have no funding to talk to them. I tried talking to the social worker who told me there’s “nothing” I need to do, but then suggested counselling. I then spoke to the social workers manager who acknow...
by QuestionMark
Fri Jul 12, 2019 10:03 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: How to revoke an SGO
Replies: 14
Views: 5439

Re: How to revoke an SGO

I'm also really confused as judge states in judgement that he 'can only set this particular train on track' and that 'contact will find it's own way' as i's up to my parents.. I've been seeing my son regularly and now I'm so confused
by QuestionMark
Fri Jul 12, 2019 10:00 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: How to revoke an SGO
Replies: 14
Views: 5439

Re: How to revoke an SGO

Suzie I'm really confused; we've been told that my parents can decide how often I see my son and how. Yet there appears to be a court order stating once a week for 3 hours, supervised. My parents have SGO and want me to have a big role in my sons life as explained above. Can you help me make sense o...