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by Minnie
Wed Jul 27, 2016 9:49 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Advice on been separated from children
Replies: 2
Views: 2567

Advice on been separated from children

Two weeks ago at the final court hearing,it was decided that my girls should be placed with their father and should only have supervised contact for 3 hours a week. I had to make a decision for the girls to returned to him or risk losing in court and not having regular contact. They are under a full...
by Minnie
Fri Jul 22, 2016 7:07 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Shocking revelations
Replies: 8
Views: 5961

Re: Shocking revelations

Hi Social services are a law unto themselves,it appears they can do what they want and with no to answer to. I signed section 20,one of the worse decisions I made. The knock on effects have been horrendous. The procedure failings have been horrendous with my daughters. Ss issued care proceedings in ...
by Minnie
Wed Jul 20, 2016 7:57 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Difficult decision
Replies: 2
Views: 2502

Re: Difficult decision

Hi The psychologist recommended Cbt for myself and both girls,my youngest daughter has had a referral to Camhs due to her behaviour. The Cbt for myself is to build my confidence which has been low due to the children’s father's behaviour towards me. This should last about 6 weeks for myself and my d...
by Minnie
Tue Jul 19, 2016 6:26 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Difficult decision
Replies: 2
Views: 2502

Difficult decision

The final hearing was last week, on the 1st day I was given 2 choices by the barrister. The 1st was fighting my case for the whole 3 days with the risk discrediting my risk and losing, prior to the 3 days starting the barrister felt was with the number 2 position with the girl's father been number 1...
by Minnie
Wed Jul 13, 2016 11:41 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Final court hearing
Replies: 2
Views: 2457

Re: Final court hearing

Hi I was advised today to agree with the decision to go with their dad as the barrister thought I would lose in court and take myself out of the equation forever getting the girls back into my care. I was also told that this way I could get a decent amount of contact which I did get as a starting po...
by Minnie
Mon Jul 11, 2016 6:44 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Final court hearing
Replies: 2
Views: 2457

Final court hearing

The final hearing is this week, it appears to be stack against me getting my girls home. The local authority and guardian are recommending that girls should be with their father and psychologist is recommending me. The Guardian's decision is knife edge as she said that their father as shown descalat...
by Minnie
Mon Jul 04, 2016 8:04 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: can social services keep a case open even if cps drop it?
Replies: 9
Views: 16317

Re: can social services keep a case open even if cps drop it?

Hi,they did with my family. The police decided not continue with their investigations but social services decided to continue with theirs. We are 8 months down the line and almost at the final hearing of care proceedings. The social worker decided we were going to court the day he took over the case...
by Minnie
Tue Jun 28, 2016 7:19 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Final court hearing
Replies: 2
Views: 2618

Re: Final court hearing

My parenting assessment wasn't positive but what he was writing was very unclear in what he was saying about me,it sounded personal,the children's father was positive and again my social worker has taken a very personal tack. It's personality differences, I have tried to work with the social worker,...
by Minnie
Fri Jun 24, 2016 8:12 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Final court hearing
Replies: 2
Views: 2618

Final court hearing

It's 3 weeks to the final hearing,it is starting to get very messy and confusing. The main concern of the LA is that I haven't worked with the professionals(the evidence suggests otherwise). My daughter has been diagnosed with complex behaviour issues which has been put solely put down to my ineffec...
by Minnie
Sun May 15, 2016 10:31 am
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: child placement plan?
Replies: 10
Views: 7343

Re: child placement plan?

I have got all the paperwork mentioned except the section 20 paperwork and have asked for it.