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by TKH
Sat Sep 08, 2012 3:30 pm
Forum: Getting your voice heard
Topic: Honestly cant see the light
Replies: 266
Views: 189905

Re: Honestly cant see the light

Think outside the box! Is there anything you can do to improve your chances? Could you perhaps pay for councelling? At least initially. Can you make enquiries about mother and toddler groups you would join if you got him back where you would make friends for extra support.Think also about joining a ...
by TKH
Mon Aug 27, 2012 6:56 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Kids father found guilty of sex assault on minor
Replies: 6
Views: 11948

Re: Kids father found guilty of sex assault on minor

Honey, I can't answere your questions but I can say that it would NOT even have made it to court if their was not a strong case against him. Don't wait to be told that he is a danger to children - accept it !
by TKH
Fri Aug 17, 2012 10:19 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Care protocols for ASD children in care
Replies: 2
Views: 3812

Re: Care protocols for ASD children in care

my local NAS office absolutely wiped the floor with CS and were invaluable.
by TKH
Sun May 27, 2012 10:42 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Not sure whats going to happen
Replies: 6
Views: 6860

Re: Not sure whats going to happen

Dont panic, all kids can get nit/lice I was a Nanny to Drs, school teachers and social workers! and all their kids got lice at some point in early childhood. Keep a note book of times,dates and whats said -GOOD and BAD. write what you treat and how. write if theyre sick and if you decide what to do ...
by TKH
Wed Mar 21, 2012 11:40 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Complaining to CS
Replies: 16
Views: 14328

Re: Complaining to CS

We have also been through this even as far as a court case. Admittedly I had made mistakes myself and also allowed an abusive husband that had moved out to return daily and control everything and everyone but my reasoning was if he didnt get his own way he would bolt with the kids and get ss to supp...
by TKH
Sun Mar 18, 2012 3:17 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Lack of Support
Replies: 6
Views: 7208

Re: Lack of Support

I have managed to hang on to my children and have still felt unsupported. I am now in the same situation as I was except that my children are more needy and damaged because of the threat of being removed that hung over them for nearly two years. I get some support from Justice for families site x
by TKH
Mon Jan 30, 2012 10:16 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Reinvolvement by cs
Replies: 4
Views: 5975

Re: Reinvolvement by cs

The whole point is that I absolutely do not wish to spend time and effort proving that I understand or think anything to anyone. I only want to concentrate on doing what is best for my family and specifically at the moment for my daughter. Being seen to do the right thing is not the same as doing th...
by TKH
Thu Jan 26, 2012 3:21 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Reinvolvement by cs
Replies: 4
Views: 5975

Reinvolvement by cs

My daughter has just made a serious attempt to end her life.She regrets it now. we have been through a hell of an ordeal with the courts and cs.Proceedings finished in our favour. I have not heard from cs though obviously they have been informed. Do I wait to see if I hera from them at all or do I m...
by TKH
Tue Dec 20, 2011 5:24 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Mother of child on drugs
Replies: 4
Views: 6874

Re: Mother of child on drugs

Does the child seem happy, healthy and thriving or is she showing signs of neglect? Does she have other extended family visiting? Does she attend school regularly, have you seen first hand her needing anything shes not had? Are there visitors to the house at times you would be concerned about. Follo...
by TKH
Sat Dec 03, 2011 10:13 pm
Forum: Trying to get help for your child?
Topic: How to help
Replies: 9
Views: 10022

Re: How to help

My 15 yearold girl has caused no end of problems with cs as says things they take out of context. Once its down on paper its so hard to change anyones mind. Professionals involved for a long time get the measure of her very well and then we work together but everytime theres a change we are back to ...