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by Msmd1990
Thu Jan 03, 2019 11:36 am
Forum: General
Topic: My husband downloaded indecent images
Replies: 51
Views: 28238

Re: My husband downloaded indecent images

Sunnydaydream Thanks for reply. It was my partner who was arrested I found the messages we weren’t together and I reported them. He was let go pending further investigation, he isn’t allowed home and only my parents can supervise his contact. They say I can’t see the risk so unsure if I’m a protecti...
by Msmd1990
Thu Jan 03, 2019 12:46 am
Forum: General
Topic: My husband downloaded indecent images
Replies: 51
Views: 28238

Re: My husband downloaded indecent images

Hi everyone I’m currently going through similar. Just wondering what happened with u all and social services? My 4 are child in need at the moment haven’t actually had any meeting or anything yet though just an assessment. Can anyone tell me what to expect at the first meeting? What will make them d...
by Msmd1990
Thu Dec 20, 2018 10:40 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Domestic abuse/child grooming
Replies: 18
Views: 4951

Re: Domestic abuse/child grooming

Thanks for the advice. I got copy of assessment now. There is a few things I agree with and a few I don’t understand she said I have a history of disguised compliance but I haven’t ever been told to do anything and not done it so I don’t see how this is the case. She says my feeling towards him is c...
by Msmd1990
Sat Dec 08, 2018 7:27 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Domestic abuse/child grooming
Replies: 18
Views: 4951

Re: Domestic abuse/child grooming

Yes we have similar interests anyway. Why do u mention that? And yes he has always been messaging someone, not constantly but he accuses me a lot and I wouldn’t do that to anyone so I know that’s just because he has done it so thinks I would.
by Msmd1990
Sat Dec 08, 2018 7:16 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Domestic abuse/child grooming
Replies: 18
Views: 4951

Re: Domestic abuse/child grooming

I have called the police a few times when he has said it but he always refused to see them only speak over the phone to confirm he was ok. He hasn’t physically cheated but he has ‘loved’ a few of the woman he has messaged online. The dap worker did suggest that order but with him not being allowed h...
by Msmd1990
Fri Dec 07, 2018 9:54 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Domestic abuse/child grooming
Replies: 18
Views: 4951

Re: Domestic abuse/child grooming

This is familiar. He has told me a lot over the recent weeks he will kill himself. Obviously I don’t want this and I don’t think he would but there is still that part of me that knows if he did I would be partly to blame because I didn’t take him serious when he was crying out for help. I feel like ...
by Msmd1990
Fri Dec 07, 2018 8:18 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Domestic abuse/child grooming
Replies: 18
Views: 4951

Re: Domestic abuse/child grooming

Thanks for reply. Yes I have tried in the past to leave him dap have moved me away from him previously twice but I have got back with him. Stupidly I know all this! I don’t know myself why I keep having him back because I don’t feel anything for him anymore if that makes sense? Everything he does ne...
by Msmd1990
Fri Dec 07, 2018 6:29 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Domestic abuse/child grooming
Replies: 18
Views: 4951

Re: Domestic abuse/child grooming

Yes I am doing everything they tell me to as I wouldn’t put my children at risk of being taken just because I don’t want to do something. The whole process has just happened so fast and I don’t reallt know what’s going on as nothing is ever fully explained my social worker has been to me twice in ne...
by Msmd1990
Fri Dec 07, 2018 4:17 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Domestic abuse/child grooming
Replies: 18
Views: 4951

Re: Domestic abuse/child grooming

Yes I understand the risk but there is nothing more I can do to prove this other than not allow him back like I have done previously. Them being involved is causing me more distruption than anything else at the moment. I don’t see how they can say they have no issue with my parenting yet still say t...
by Msmd1990
Fri Dec 07, 2018 2:38 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about domestic violence in your family?
Topic: Domestic abuse/child grooming
Replies: 18
Views: 4951

Re: Domestic abuse/child grooming

Thank u both. Yes if this was my children I would tell them to leave if it was any of my friends I would say the same. I just know my children are only Unhappy because their dad isn’t here as they won’t allow contact unsupervised or with me. Social services have told me they want me to do courses fo...