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by mva17
Mon Dec 03, 2018 11:53 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: probation officer vs children services
Replies: 12
Views: 1143

Re: probation officer vs children services

At the end i didnt need to complain to cs as they came to visit me. The lady said she was happy for me to supervise my husband and they were to step down the case i they dont see a risk and they will be happy with the work that probation officer is doing with him. That should be very good news.Howev...
by mva17
Thu Nov 22, 2018 10:49 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Experiences of sex offender living with baby
Replies: 6
Views: 471

Re: Experiences of sex offender living with baby

Children services are happy for me to decide how and when he can see the children as long as he is always supervised by me or by someone that i trust. they ask me what the kids knew about the situation but didn't bother that my little one (8 yeas old) doesn't know much.
by mva17
Wed Nov 21, 2018 11:32 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Experiences of sex offender living with baby
Replies: 6
Views: 471

Re: Experiences of sex offender living with baby

i am not sure, but i think they can still live as a couple as they haven't got any kids. My husband is classified as low risk as well, and he can see the kids 100 supervised by me and can't live in the house. imposed by children services. when he got his visit from the police worker he told him that...
by mva17
Mon Oct 29, 2018 9:54 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: probation officer vs children services
Replies: 12
Views: 1143

Re: probation officer vs children services

i can understand that children services only want the safeguarding of the children. But to be honest doesn't feel like it. we should, as a parent, trust their judge, but it is very difficult when you see only a impersonal letter. if they think my husband shouldn't see the kids in their own house, th...
by mva17
Sat Oct 27, 2018 11:02 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Time together as a couple advice
Replies: 53
Views: 2273

Re: Time together as a couple advice

it seem a very difficult position, maybe find a babysitter for the baby once a week when the other are at school. it is not ideal, but i think is better than nothing.
by mva17
Sat Oct 27, 2018 9:11 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: probation officer vs children services
Replies: 12
Views: 1143

Re: probation officer vs children services

Very confused about the whole children service situation. In one hand they claim to do everything to safeguard the children and in other hand they seem to cover their backs. Maybe one day they explain to me why they work like this. I feel sad and alone in the whole process. I know things take time b...
by mva17
Thu Oct 25, 2018 9:18 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: probation officer vs children services
Replies: 12
Views: 1143

Re: probation officer vs children services

keep trying to contact the children services for an explanation on the agreement, as it was from the short conversation on the phone. So the children services had an email from my child school asking, calls from me, and email from probation officer. Now i had a email from school, they saying that th...
by mva17
Thu Oct 18, 2018 5:04 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: probation officer vs children services
Replies: 12
Views: 1143

Re: probation officer vs children services

thanks for the answer. I tried to call the children services and send an email asking for a clarification but they are to busy to get back to me. I just worried that they say something different to probation. Anyway i found quite difficult to understand the lack of interest or support. i know they a...
by mva17
Wed Oct 17, 2018 12:46 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: probation officer vs children services
Replies: 12
Views: 1143

probation officer vs children services

I got a agreement that i need to sign that say any contact with dad should be done outside the family home supervised by me. when i spoke to children services on the phone, as they seen to busy to see me. I say to them the children usually see their dad outside the house because it is easier for me....
by mva17
Fri Oct 12, 2018 7:17 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Police Investigation and Child Services Hell
Replies: 16
Views: 1246

Re: Police Investigation and Child Services Hell

Hi, i am in a similar situation. in my case my husband is already convicted. He is allow to see the children (a boy and a girl), since conviction i never had a visit from cs only a phone call and a letter that they expect me to sign. but i am going to wait until they decide to explain to me what the...