Thank you for your response. I’ve opted to raise awareness of the issues I experienced in hopes that it’ll help improve the service. Even though this isn’t a complaint I’m still pretty nervous about it - I’m always worried they’ll see it as a reason to become involved in my life again!

The case is closed. I’ve boiled down my complaints to one; but I’m afraid that if I complain now, it’ll be used against me in the future if I have another child. Any advice? Do I have a right to complain? Am I safe to complain?

The President of the family division has released a statement on this issue if you just google it :) You are right, if both households are healthy then children can travel between the homes! Unfortunately, my situation is similar - used to get one full day and one might, and I’ve been reduced down t...

Case was closed and now I’ve had help putting a complaint together, but I’m afraid they’ll get involved again if I complain.

What’s the experience others have had after putting complaints in? I just want to raise the issues but I want them to leave me alone too

What can parents do when contact is being withdrawn due to this virus? Obviously we all want our children to be safe and healthy, so what is going to happen when court orders start being ignored and how can we at least make up lost time?

Can you think of any other way they may have gotten these fractures?

Does he care for his children? As I imagine that would be a positive that children’s services will take into account

I would do otherwise you may be accused on lying to professionals

It may be worth him being proactive and looking into any courses he can do around child protection - look on the NSPCC website (they do online courses for £20). If they begin to show any concern though, I’d be prepared to end the relationship for your boys

Hi hun, So sorry you’ve been through all you have. I too lost my baby to her dad for the same reasons, he still has residency. Well done for getting shared care and putting all the work in! I think the only thing they may have concern for is your current boyfriend - how long ago did he receive this ...