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by QuestionMark
Wed Apr 17, 2019 9:19 am
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: "Radical" court decision
Replies: 18
Views: 1333

Re: "Radical" court decision

Hi Suzie, Thanks for the reply. I informed the police and they spoke to my ex who stated he knew nothing and it was an accident and so it's now on his record but they can't take it any further. Can I ask some advice? One of the findings is the 'relationship was unstable and abusive' which I agree, h...
by QuestionMark
Wed Apr 17, 2019 8:33 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Family support worker visiting far too much
Replies: 1
Views: 54

Re: Family support worker visiting far too much

Can you text or email or find a way to get the actually arranged visits in writing? This way you can prove that, when arranged, you are at home and the visit goes ahead. Then you can also prove that if she turns up any other time it wasn't arranged and, as it wasn't pre-planned and agreed, you have ...
by QuestionMark
Sun Apr 14, 2019 6:54 pm
Forum: Welcome and rules of use
Topic: I guess this is where I start??
Replies: 2
Views: 339

Re: I guess this is where I start??

Hello, I really hope Suzie replies to your questions asap as I don't have answers to your questions and I'm so so sorry this has happened to your family. Just food for thought; it sounds that your oldest may have been manipulated by her boyfriend which isn't healthy at all so I think that relationsh...
by QuestionMark
Sun Apr 14, 2019 10:20 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: How to revoke an SGO
Replies: 3
Views: 716

Re: How to revoke an SGO

Also, what does this mean for my sons dad - or, more importantly, my son having a relationship with his dad? My sons dad disengaged from our sons care proceedings before they were even formally begun; when our son was 1 month old. I feel several factors played into this decision; 1) SW kept pressuri...
by QuestionMark
Sun Apr 14, 2019 9:03 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: How to revoke an SGO
Replies: 3
Views: 716

Re: How to revoke an SGO

Hi Suzie, I was wondering if you could help me in relation to the above? My parents are being given an SGO over my son; the court have told them that how and when I see him is at their "discretion". My barrister has also briefly mentioned revoking it due to the talk and evidence around why I should ...
by QuestionMark
Sat Apr 13, 2019 9:09 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: please help, really feeling let down
Replies: 0
Views: 98

please help, really feeling let down

This entire time it has always been about the pool of perpetrators that I was left in. Every time I've tried to reach out to the social worker and ask for advice she's shot me down and told me she can't help me because I'm in a pool. When I tried reaching out the IRO, in a desperate attempt for some...
by QuestionMark
Sat Apr 13, 2019 8:55 am
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Feeling really hurt and let down by SS
Replies: 0
Views: 140

Feeling really hurt and let down by SS

This entire time it has always been about the pool of perpetrators that I was left in. Every time I've tried to reach out to the social worker and ask for advice she's shot me down and told me she can't help me because I'm in a pool. When I tried reaching out the IRO, in a desperate attempt for some...
by QuestionMark
Fri Apr 12, 2019 8:03 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: Confused - help please
Replies: 0
Views: 104

Confused - help please

Had the draft judgement handed down today even though my solicitor wasn't informed of it and so I couldn't be present when it happened as no one had told us! Long story short is that he's giving an SGO to my parents - that's not what I'm confused about, it's the following: SW said findings made in t...
by QuestionMark
Mon Apr 08, 2019 7:02 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: "Radical" court decision
Replies: 18
Views: 1333

Re: "Radical" court decision

Hi, thanks for the response- can't imagine how strong you must be for putting up with this for a decade! This has been none stop for me for nearly 20 months so far and I've lost count of how many hearings there's been. I have no connection whatsoever to my abuser including financially so the fraud w...
by QuestionMark
Fri Apr 05, 2019 3:06 pm
Forum: Do you have a child in care?
Topic: "Radical" court decision
Replies: 18
Views: 1333

Re: "Radical" court decision

Two days after my late sons inquest I noticed a transaction with my bank that wasn't me. I reported this to my bank and they that traced the information back to my ex abusers house address and email address. I've now had to contact the police about my ex abuser being fraudulent. Will the social work...