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by Seadog01274
Mon Feb 04, 2019 8:06 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Husband downloading child images
Replies: 63
Views: 14711

Re: Husband downloading child images

Even after your explanation I don’t think I can accept that what he looks at on that screen has no effect on his every day life. I don’t believe he has or ever would look at my daughter like that but it’s a risk I am not willing to take anymore. He hasn’t made any effort with finding himself help. H...
by Seadog01274
Sun Feb 03, 2019 8:02 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Husband downloading child images
Replies: 63
Views: 14711

Re: Husband downloading child images

I also want to be able to make that decision myself that it’s over and not have that taken out of my control. I’ve lost control of everything. After attending the nspcc women’s protectors course a lot of reflection since I finished has helped me. How can I have a man who gets pleasure from looking a...
by Seadog01274
Fri Feb 01, 2019 10:44 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Husband downloading child images
Replies: 63
Views: 14711

Re: Husband downloading child images

Reality has slowly sunk in that no matter how hard I fight, what am I really fighting for? He isn’t going to be allowed to come home. Over time I’ve started to wonder if I actually want him to come home. Things will never be the same again. At my age this is not what I signed up for. I’ve gone back ...
by Seadog01274
Sun Jan 06, 2019 8:32 pm
Forum: General
Topic: My husband downloaded indecent images
Replies: 35
Views: 13015

Re: My husband downloaded indecent images

Hi everyone. We’re not much further on, my daughter is still on a child in need plan. My husband still isn’t allowed any contact with my little girl. We’ve been living apart for almost 8 months now. We’re still waiting for a court date. Everything is such a slow process I don’t know how I’ve made it...
by Seadog01274
Fri Nov 30, 2018 2:39 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Are we being treated differently?
Replies: 1
Views: 659

Are we being treated differently?

My husband is waiting for a court dare to be charged with IIOC. This all began back in June 2018. Since the day the police came my husband has not been allowed any contact, direct or indirect with my daughter. He is not her biological dad, we are married and have lived together as a family for almos...
by Seadog01274
Thu Nov 01, 2018 6:53 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Time together as a couple advice
Replies: 62
Views: 8664

Re: Time together as a couple advice

Yes I really feel an expert in this subject needs to carry out the assessment as every professional involved seems to tar everyone with the same brush. This can’t be the case for everyone. I would love some advice on this subject if suzie can help!
by Seadog01274
Wed Oct 31, 2018 9:44 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Time together as a couple advice
Replies: 62
Views: 8664

Re: Time together as a couple advice

Are you able to give some advice on how to have an independent physiological assessment carried out? Xx
by Seadog01274
Wed Oct 31, 2018 10:08 am
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Husband downloading child images
Replies: 63
Views: 14711

Re: Husband downloading child images

Thankyou foreigner! Yes fingers crossed for only restrictions to his online use and not to our family as such. Oh I can imagine it being another few months until the court date as they seem so busy. I’m trying to do everything right by my social worker, grit my teeth and smile!
by Seadog01274
Mon Oct 29, 2018 11:59 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Husband downloading child images
Replies: 63
Views: 14711

Re: Husband downloading child images

Thankyou so much for all your help and advice. I thought he would attend next week, then have to wait again for a court date.
Keeping fingers crossed for it not being too much longer until any kind of contact with my daughter. We will stay strong and keep up the fight.
by Seadog01274
Mon Oct 29, 2018 11:00 pm
Forum: Are social workers worried about your child?
Topic: Husband downloading child images
Replies: 63
Views: 14711

Re: Husband downloading child images

My husband has now been called in for an interview. 4 months on from them coming to our house with a warrant. In a way I feel so lucky, all the waiting will be over. I was told my CS to prepare for it taking anywhere up to a year. Not too sure what to expect next.