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by ScaredToBear
Sun Apr 21, 2019 2:42 am
Forum: General
Topic: My husband downloaded indecent images
Replies: 51
Views: 28242

Re: My husband downloaded indecent images

Update on me: I lost my 33% off my prison sentence because I chose to spend 3 months in Philippines. I got married here to a really loving, caring girl. I have basically moved here, I have a new family and I really love being here. I have to go back to England to be locked up in 3 weeks and I am hea...
by ScaredToBear
Wed Aug 08, 2018 2:25 am
Forum: General
Topic: My husband downloaded indecent images
Replies: 51
Views: 28242

Re: My husband downloaded indecent images

Most sex offenders are mentally crippled and will never look at a indecent image again. For most, it is a mental illness. Looking at the images, they know it's wrong and hate themselves for it but are too weak to fight it. On the internet, they can be monsters, but in real life they'll never look at...
by ScaredToBear
Sat Jul 21, 2018 3:39 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.
Replies: 18
Views: 9310

Re: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.

Just an update. I spoke with the lucyfoundation who advised me to talk to stopitnow. I spent like 2 hours talking to this nice lady who have me a lot of useful advice. After I stopped my binge drink, I got back on track and felt like I had super human strength. The motivation and changes were just o...
by ScaredToBear
Wed Jul 18, 2018 11:50 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Desperate to find someone in my shoes
Replies: 31
Views: 11374

Re: Desperate to find someone in my shoes

I wouldn't say I'm the same boat but I did get my house searched, items taken and arrested. I recently lost my son and girlfriend due to the extreme black cloud over my head and vulture services weighing in. I'm not sure how I'm still living, but I am. :P But yeah.. Just because this man had indecen...
by ScaredToBear
Wed Jul 18, 2018 4:56 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.
Replies: 18
Views: 9310

Re: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.

It will probably cost crazy amount of money but why don’t you try an international law solicitor? Someone who knows the laws in either country and could offer advice? I can't afford anything. The thing that bothers me the most is I waited 10 years to have a baby and all I wanted to do was be the be...
by ScaredToBear
Tue Jul 17, 2018 2:24 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.
Replies: 18
Views: 9310

Re: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.

Kami2018 wrote:I wish I knew how to advise you but I'm totally stuck on this one but there must be something someone can do out there never give up
Thanks. Vulture services in ****** won't tell me anything. I can't exactly travel to there because they'll just tell me to f off.
by ScaredToBear
Sat Jul 14, 2018 5:44 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.
Replies: 18
Views: 9310

Re: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.

You should seek a solicitor if xxxxxx children's services say that u can see your son u should be able too and if xxxxxxx have been made aware of your partner and child being in xxxxxxx they should have also been made aware that u can see your son I would phone them till they make some sense if the...
by ScaredToBear
Sat Jul 14, 2018 1:44 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.
Replies: 18
Views: 9310

Re: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.

Yeah we have been complying. The social worker told me I should see my son every day, but I can no longer do that because she moved back to another country because of the black cloud above my head. I told her to go back to her dad's to get my son away from the black cloud. It was a mistake and I wis...
by ScaredToBear
Wed Jun 27, 2018 9:44 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.
Replies: 18
Views: 9310

Re: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.

Just an update: Not much has happened since they got involved. We didn't separate living arrangements because we had no where to go and none of it feels real, due to the fact that I'm innocent of the allegations. The way I see it, is I want to do everything in my power to keep the family together. I...
by ScaredToBear
Wed Jun 27, 2018 9:28 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.
Replies: 18
Views: 9310

Re: Any advice please? I'm living in hell.

I think if u love your partner and son as much as it will hurt you you need tomseperate from living together ur actions are very bad not meaning that to be nasty but it is bad and social services will not leave u living together u will have to work with them but as it stands ur girlfriend is not sh...